The thing is, they have always been this way. I mean, my wife has been through this since she was a child. So it doesn't come to her as a surprise.
They do this to her even now, and she lets them because she has to otherwise hear even more bs.
She understands the damage it causes, she is hesitant to take concrete steps because it's her mother and little sister and she does not want to bring about conflict in relations.
I have tried to drive at the point many times, but they never own up. They consider it harmless banter to poke around with the kids mind and laugh at the innocent reactions they get. In one instance, the little sis said she will keep doing it and I had no business to poke around the relation between her and her nephew.
I think it is time i give them the ultimatum. Shit people deserve shit behaviour.
If you did, she would only remember you as “that creepy guy that send me flowers a month after we broke up, when we only dated for a month in the first place” and could even end up scaring her.
I know this is probably me trying to justify myself but she blocked me after a huge fight we had. 3 days before that she was talking about introducing me to her family and coworkers.
She will not find it kind or cute or romantic or sweet, it will be seen as stalker-like and creepy
I understand, i won't do this. Thank you for your honesty
Why the hell would you try to get these 2 abusive men to sit down and talk to your son? Do you realize the trauma the poor baby would go through? I'm so glad he said no. Please protect your child. I don't know you, but I would bet good money that you are not ready for a relationship with anyone but your son and a therapist.
Just read this made me feel anxious!
His Nana can be his emotional support after the baby is born.
But I think you should make sure he's ready to be a dad.
This is just the beginning
The thing is, they have always been this way. I mean, my wife has been through this since she was a child. So it doesn't come to her as a surprise.
They do this to her even now, and she lets them because she has to otherwise hear even more bs.
She understands the damage it causes, she is hesitant to take concrete steps because it's her mother and little sister and she does not want to bring about conflict in relations.
I have tried to drive at the point many times, but they never own up. They consider it harmless banter to poke around with the kids mind and laugh at the innocent reactions they get. In one instance, the little sis said she will keep doing it and I had no business to poke around the relation between her and her nephew.
I think it is time i give them the ultimatum. Shit people deserve shit behaviour.
I hope my daughters are also “alpha females” just like you.
It's a bit tasteless on her part but 100% allowed. You do need to give her a fair but firm move out date though.
If you did, she would only remember you as “that creepy guy that send me flowers a month after we broke up, when we only dated for a month in the first place” and could even end up scaring her.
I know this is probably me trying to justify myself but she blocked me after a huge fight we had. 3 days before that she was talking about introducing me to her family and coworkers.
She will not find it kind or cute or romantic or sweet, it will be seen as stalker-like and creepy
I understand, i won't do this. Thank you for your honesty
Facts wtf
Then I think you answered you own question…
She’s got probably a bet on the birth-day ?
It can be every kind of guy.
And are women immune to this or are they also “fucking pigs”?
Why the hell would you try to get these 2 abusive men to sit down and talk to your son? Do you realize the trauma the poor baby would go through? I'm so glad he said no. Please protect your child. I don't know you, but I would bet good money that you are not ready for a relationship with anyone but your son and a therapist.