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Feeling neglected is more than enough reason to end a marriage. In fact you don’t need a reason to end a relationship. This was absolutely horrible to read dude I’m so sorry this is happening. Think about what’s best for your mental and emotional health, if that means ending your marriage than do it xx
If you'd really like him you wouldn't have lied to him. You would have been honest. And I don't think that there is anything to make him talk to you. Give him space and if he wants to, he'll reach out.
Maybe r/AITA, but personally I think you may be overreacting by breaking up with him, but his family's way of just joining the gathering without asking is disrespectful and not okay, but it isn't break up worthy (in my opinion).
I would just tell them, the only people who are going to be allowed to come, was the ones who were invited, and if they don't want to come, due to some extended family not being allowed to come, then more food and joyous day for the people who are coming.
But again there seems to be more underlying here.
Hey, first of all, congrats for getting back into exercise and losing a 3rd of the weight you gained. That's awesome. Hope you get to the point where you feel like yourself again in your body soon ?
Secondly, what other people have pointed out… drunks and kids speak truth.
The name calling may be limited to your weight gain. It's a shallow and vapid way to 'love' people.
I'd use this as a wake-up call and look at my relationship in general. Has he really been a true partner in good and bad times? Literally through thick and thin in this case? (Pun unintended.)
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If the cops actually talk to you, don’t tell them anything. They will use it against you.
Your gf didn’t owe you anything after the break up. She didn’t have to tell you who she hooked up with. So she’s done nothing wrong.
But your friend? Yeah. Those who think he’s done nothing wrong have obviously not had close friends. And the fact that he felt guilty when confronted means that he knew that it was wrong.
The petty in me would say go and hook up with one of his exes. But I’m kidding of course. Up to you whether you break the friendship. I would. At the very least I’d go low contact.
I’d rent the home and either move in and renew the lease with her or look for new place in the city you both can budget.
Thank you for the comment.
Also get over this weird sanctity for sex, yall are fuckin it's just not that deep. Don't be afraid to explore sex cause of them preconceived notions.
There was a period in my life where I had that mentality and it was vapid, indulgent, and ultimately a vice for me. I put in a lot of work to overcome that, so it is that deep. I don't ever want sex to just be pleasure for the sake of pleasure, or just masturbation with another person. It's more than that to me. If that's “weird sanctity”, so be it.
He's saying No. Doesn't matter why. No is No.
Especially since he's only a FWB, someone you fuck for fun. If he doesn't want to do X, well, no more X.
Most people think that their duty to their spouse supersedes their duty to their parents, when these come into conflict. However, it might be possible to work out a compromise solution, to spend some time in Mexico and some time with your parents while they are still alive.
This. Especially because he has no idea if they were on a break or what state their relationship was in a year and half ago.
If it were last week, and they were just engaged this week, that's a different story.
I mean you can run from everything. But you could also ask what the hell that was about and maybe make him realize something. And if he doesn't get it, then you leave.
I online rurally as well on a farm. I love it here. But same as you. No therapists around here lol. I do telehealth and video chat with my therapist now just once every two weeks. But I started almost two years ago twice a week.
Please do follow up with someone. Someone who does telehealth. Otherwise I’m gonna worry about you and seriously therapy changed my life and my marriage. I know you’re hurt but even aside from that. We all have reasons to improve ourselves. Good luck
That’s one of the most cold & callous things I think I’ve heard in a long time. Just so rude and heartless and the audacity to tell you to turn off the lights to finish?
You should seriously be looking at her behavior. Has she changed the way she dresses going to work? More girls night out or staying out late? Or does she just stay over at a friends after girls night so she doesn’t have to “drive home drunk” etc?Does she suddenly have to work late more often ? Has there been a new male coworker or has she talked about men at her job in particular lately?
Often when someone isn’t attracted to their spouse anymore they’ll cheat. Normally I wouldn’t jump straight to that conclusion but the way she disrespected you mid love making and didn’t give a shit how it hurt you makes me think she’s cheating. I don’t know maybe I’m wrong but damn. She could have closed her eyes at the least but she chose to hurt you instead. Knowing you can’t continue after that harsh revelation.
She could have talked to you later about this while not having sex and made it easier to take. She could have said she’s worried about your weight and shown concern for your health. But she didn’t. She did the most cruel way she could in the moment. There’s no coming back from that.
All that is why I think she may be cheating because she just didn’t care how bad it hurt you she just wanted her rocks off no matter the cost. If it’s not physical infidelity it’ll be an emotional affair. She’s up to something that made her think it’s ok to say that to you. Didn’t even care if she looses you. And probably expects you to just take it and say nothing.
I don’t know how you move forward after that. Don’t let her make this your fault. Yes we’re in control of our weight and we all put on some from time to time but what we don’t do is say shit like that to our spouse who we’re supposed to love and support.
Even if the weight gain is an issue her words in that specific moment we’re harsh and unforgiving.
If you had said the same to her there’d be weeks of silent treatment and she’d probably kick you out so she could recover.
I think there is something much deeper going on here than your weight.
Right? Having a nude time wrapping my head around this.
Act like nothings wrong for the four weeks. Give nothing away. Fly home. Never go back.