Actually believe it or not at this point in my life I think I might turn down the opportunity to befriend desperate pedophiles for 100$ per selfie. There are different challenges and lived experiences for everyone.
I'm just saying that what you're doing, if not straight up sex work, is sex work adjacent, at least. It seems reasonable to expect future and present partners to object to this kinda shit. Some may not, but many for sure will. And if they do you're basically left with the choice of the “modeling” or the partner.
I want to emphasize how amazing this book is for both men AND women. As a woman I read it and learned so much about my own self. And it made sex with my partner so much better and more connective.
Your gf is probably getting in her own head about it but it's not something that can't be learned or unlearned. Good luck!
You realize your wife is offering absolutely nothing to put your mind at ease right? She is having sex with strangers, that may or may not have turned into coercion, and she is just asking you to believe her story. On top of that, she was terrified of you seeing the actual evidence of this go down?
This is pretty naked to believe man, I’m sorry. The fact that she’s “back to her old self” after convincing you she was RAPED just does not jive. She doesn’t have PTSD? She’s not having nightmares? She isn’t flinching at being touched? Come on man.
Cherish every moment. Keep your perspective. Open and honest communication always. Don't put off solving problems because you're afraid of upsetting the relationship. If you really love her, you must know that you would do anything to ensure that she is happy and fulfilled in the relationship. If she really loves you, you must know that she would do the same.
I've been there. It's wonderful. Unfortunately it couldn't last for me. Wishing you both the very best. Thank you for giving me some hope for the future
Don't let her know that you know she's cheating until you have concrete proof. Not just so that she can't deny it, but so you can have evidence for a divorce. I would collect as much evidence as I can and contact a lawyer, I wouldn't let her know the truth until I'm literally handing her the divorce documents to sign.
What?!?!?!!? another spammer/troll posting in here, I just don't believe it. I wonder what the chances are if 90%of the posts in this sub are trolls/spam, that one is real..im not good at math so, not really sure.
I'm not a professional, but he sounds depressed.
Actually believe it or not at this point in my life I think I might turn down the opportunity to befriend desperate pedophiles for 100$ per selfie. There are different challenges and lived experiences for everyone.
I'm just saying that what you're doing, if not straight up sex work, is sex work adjacent, at least. It seems reasonable to expect future and present partners to object to this kinda shit. Some may not, but many for sure will. And if they do you're basically left with the choice of the “modeling” or the partner.
I want to emphasize how amazing this book is for both men AND women. As a woman I read it and learned so much about my own self. And it made sex with my partner so much better and more connective.
Your gf is probably getting in her own head about it but it's not something that can't be learned or unlearned. Good luck!
You realize your wife is offering absolutely nothing to put your mind at ease right? She is having sex with strangers, that may or may not have turned into coercion, and she is just asking you to believe her story. On top of that, she was terrified of you seeing the actual evidence of this go down?
This is pretty naked to believe man, I’m sorry. The fact that she’s “back to her old self” after convincing you she was RAPED just does not jive. She doesn’t have PTSD? She’s not having nightmares? She isn’t flinching at being touched? Come on man.
Move on. An ex did this to me and held me hostage for a year. You can’t let him do that to you. It’ll never work. Move on.
Thank you, for sure we need to sit down and talk about this
Cherish every moment. Keep your perspective. Open and honest communication always. Don't put off solving problems because you're afraid of upsetting the relationship. If you really love her, you must know that you would do anything to ensure that she is happy and fulfilled in the relationship. If she really loves you, you must know that she would do the same.
I've been there. It's wonderful. Unfortunately it couldn't last for me. Wishing you both the very best. Thank you for giving me some hope for the future
Don't let her know that you know she's cheating until you have concrete proof. Not just so that she can't deny it, but so you can have evidence for a divorce. I would collect as much evidence as I can and contact a lawyer, I wouldn't let her know the truth until I'm literally handing her the divorce documents to sign.
Well, that is not always the case the first time around.
Don’t take it personally, give it another go, and then come back for advice about how the 2nd time went.
Sometimes, getting over that first time interaction is enough for a better experience.
What?!?!?!!? another spammer/troll posting in here, I just don't believe it. I wonder what the chances are if 90%of the posts in this sub are trolls/spam, that one is real..im not good at math so, not really sure.