Thanks for the kind words, but I don't think I've been as empathic as I could have, in fact I often got upset at aspect of her illness, especially since they started applying to me directly.
She is the adult living with her partner and is about to get married. The only connection he has to these people is her. It's her job to deal with her family.
Not that it helps right now, but maybe listen to fuzz, get better first. Then in the future plan to go out to visit them for a second-first impression. Also for the love of god, sleep in a different room or the couch if necessary.
Same can be said for you
You stop trying to have children with this person and find one of the other 99% of men in the world who are more considerate
Thanks for the kind words, but I don't think I've been as empathic as I could have, in fact I often got upset at aspect of her illness, especially since they started applying to me directly.
Why the hell are you still talking to him? Why haven't you told his wife?
Basically…. You need to tell her no. You're not fixing it.
Millions of people voted for Donald Trump. The amount of really, staggeringly, frighteningly stupid people out there is truly horrifying.
Tell her your fears, if she still goes, then consider the relationship over, because eventually he is going to at least try to seduce her.
She is the adult living with her partner and is about to get married. The only connection he has to these people is her. It's her job to deal with her family.
Not that it helps right now, but maybe listen to fuzz, get better first. Then in the future plan to go out to visit them for a second-first impression. Also for the love of god, sleep in a different room or the couch if necessary.