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Victoria Maria, 29 y.o.
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Date: October 16, 2022
Victoria Maria, 29 y.o.
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He love bombs me after being really mean so it’s very confusing
OP, you clearly know enough about emotional manipulation and the cycle of abuse to be able to accurately call out the love bombing. You need to accurately label the rest for yourself too. People who aren't trying to manipulate or abuse don't love bomb. On some level you understand that.
Do not try to “earn that ring.” You will never “earn that ring” and if you DO, you've just set yourself up to be an abused, mistreated spouse who is constantly made to feel like they need to “earn” their place in their marriage. The fuck is he doing to “earn” your affection, other than making you feel like you don't deserve his? Someone that really loves you will never make you feel like you don't deserve that love or make you feel like you have to perform for it. A ring you get that way is a trap, not a reward.
Move back in with your parents. While you're there, read “Why Does He Do That?” By Lundy Bancroft before you even consider getting in another relationship. You are too young to be jumping through hoops for some garbage monster who clearly does not actually love or respect you in hopes of getting a ring.
No kidding!!!! She’s been at my apartment on the second date so what’s different now.
You keep saying this, but what of it? You chose to have a kid, you chose to accept the responsibility, you chose to take a risk that something might happen to the child's mother and you'd be on your own. Suck it up, become a single dad, it won't be as ideal as having two loving parents. But, it is clear this woman doesn't care about you or your kid.