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make me smile:) [Multi Goal]
Date: October 3, 2022
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Take him out and close it. But be prepared for her to Cheat. Or bring in a female for you and let her feel like a third wheel ! I personally would go back in there and tell them that play time is over and he needs to get out!
You’re right I just don’t understand how he could still want to take his own life when he has a whole ass child to live for. That’s what hurts me the most and is the only thing stopping me from leaving.
This is one of those situations that, his unhealthy reaction aside, had no right/wrong. When you’re coupled, you can’t always do all the things you used to do—including holiday traditions. You have to find compromises.
I’m with him in that I wouldn’t want to spend the night if our house is in the same town. I’d rather sleep in my own bed and start my morning my way than be an uncomfortable guest in someone’s house. I can handle a few hours of family time but beyond that is just more than I can handle.
I can also understand your side in that you want to see your sisters and mom.
Is he like this all the time when it comes to family? Like you aren’t “allowed” to just go on your own without a guilt trip?
Because to me (44F) it makes sense that maybe you’d spend a night with fam and he does a night at home. He’s not proposing a new tradition with you two, he just wants to be home and he could do that all by himself.
I think if I were in your shoes I’d do the plan of Xmas eve with his fam, Xmas morning with yours, then he goes home (or back to his fam) and you spend the rest of Xmas day and night with your fam.
There was no indication in this story that the transwoman was upset about the gender assumption. She was simply correcting a factual error. The boyfriend is projecting an aggressive “don’t assume!!” attitude onto her.
I see, thanks for your words ! But how can it be that he used to be very sexually active in his single days but now not? Does that mean commitment is unsexy to him?
Nah usually that he watched porn and masturbated, nothing more that involves other people, money, drugs or anything like that.
Laying his dick on a woman after she has indicated she doesn’t want to be sexually active at that time makes him a dick who has crossed boundaries, yes. This is also a fairly common and very frustrating experience for people that builds up over time and makes us less likely to want to be intimate because of the disrespect and frustration. She laid a boundary and he crossed it once again. That’s a problem. It’s not the end of the world, but it can feel very exhausting and she has every right to be bothered by it.
I'd like to go on and say if my wife lost her cool at work I would 100% take care of her. My marriage is a partnership and I'd rather have her and make changes and find a way to be happy.
What do you do in terms of house hold duties? Childcare? Do you share the responsibility or is it mainly her doing the heavy lifting of parenting and housework? Sexual desire is largely emotional for women-if you’re not meeting her emotional needs, you’ll certainly see a decline in physical desires. Do things to help around the house-without expecting the reward of sex ie; “honey look, I did the dishes, how about a bj?”
This is a deeply offensive and troubling opinion.
Is this the first partner that’s met your family?
And more importantly, do you think it’s important to standup and advocate for one’s partner?
On a very very basic sense you could chalk this up to an incompatibility between you two. In that you two have different believes and just can't agree.
On a more complex side of things some of the ways you described her actions and emotions do not sound like someone who is fully ready for a serious adult relationship yet.
Communication is key. Especially on the lowest days. If she can't communicate and then is suprised when people don't want to talk to her that's entirely on her and a her problem.
Here's the real issue. If she doesn't want to change there's not a lot you can do. You can either accept these incompatibilities and try to take the horse to water but you can't make it drink.
This may eventually bite both of you in the ass or who knows she may finally realize what you're trying to say.
It may very well fall short one day. The question is if you want to stay as things are and find out or do you want to keep trying to make her see or what.