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Date: October 10, 2022

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  1. You’re asking a lot of culturally driven subjective questions here that frankly you’re going to get terrible responses to.

    Instead of thinking about “should I”, ask yourself, “how is this affecting my relationship with my husband?”

    If he’s OK with you making no effort to learn the language, then that’s your answer.

    Or, you could make a show of trying and utterly failing. That’s a nice way to make the in-laws feel like you’re making an effort while keeping the language barrier as a solution to petty squabbles.

    Personally, I don’t see the point in actually learning the language well unless you have a real personal desire or personal need.

  2. You're not with her because you love her, but because you are putting her needs before your own. She's leeching off of you as she has nobody else left.

    She WILL hit you, right now she's kept back by her fear of you finaly leaving. But slowly her behaviour will get worse while you will stay around, showing her that she can do whatever to you.

    Has she ever in the past three years made any sort of progress towards bettering herself? Therapy? Courses? Actual deeds? Because it sounds like the classical “I'm sorry I will do better/it will never happen again” stuff we hear from every abusive person. They only feel remorse afterwards, promising a lot but doing exactly nothing.

    Stay and watch her reach the point of openly slamming her fists on you, sapping the joy out of your life until you yourself reach a point of no return.

    Put your foot down and make her actualy better her ways. This behaviour ends now, you are not a punching bag and unless she shows any progress or deeds in trying to better herself…

    Leave the relationship while you still find joy in life. While you don't have to flinch from loud voices or sudden arm movements. Before you become a husk of the man you are today.

  3. Some women enjoy that, get over it. I bring her to my swingers party where she is the main attraction and she loves it. Some DO love it.

  4. If he won’t talk about the divorce it’s because he did the betraying. She will never get over it and doesn’t have to. You need to know what kind of partner you’re getting involved with. The therapist should come up with the solution on meeting with Luka’s permission.

  5. Communication goes both ways. There’s no way someone just wakes up one day with an epiphany and decides they want to enter a relationship. You build up to that point until you feel you are ready to take that next step.

    If she felt that she was building this connection that was leading towards a potential relationship, but she also has other dates lined up, she could simply ask where the current companionship is going before proceeding.

  6. So been in your shoes. Frankly I think you did the right thing keeping minimal contact is the right thing. If he wanted to be in your life he would have been.

    I suggest you meet him though, it can give you some piece of mind and you can learn about medical history.

  7. I get that she felt your behavior was rude, but I think you were just feeling tired/unwell and weren't expecting company. If it had been me, I probably would have asked if you were okay when you decided to go lay down.

    You both didn't exactly communicate well on this one. The easiest way to resolve this is to have a conversation. Apologize that you upset her. Ask her to give you a heads up next time, if you're feeling unwell you should give her a heads up as well.

  8. Ask him what he’s doing to prevent said issues…? Simply reading about them doesn’t do jack squat. Maybe suggest you both volunteer together at a homeless shelter or picking up trash in your area. Or attending local political events. That’s at least actually doing something.

  9. As others have said, what he is doing is control, not a boundary.

    Control is about trying to make others do (or not do) something. Boundaries are about what you will (or will not) allow others to do to you.

    You need to set a boundary: You should not allow him to control you in this way. It is an outrageous thing for him to try to control. You should just break up with him now, enjoy the trip, and certainly don't bother explaining it to him.

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