Oh dear, you need to revisit your standard of what constitutes sweet and considerate. I’ll say this, he sure has to be those things because he’s an idiot. And as an employer, a female, and someone with 2 working brain cells, your partner would not have made it past the interview round, and would certainly NOT survive in my office.
Maybe he’ll grow up…
May I suggest dating men though… dating a child is kind of frowned upon. You can do better.
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Why do you want to marry somebody who doesn't care about you? He didn't think to include your interests in the prenup. Do you think he's going to have a regard for you after the wedding?
Op if you husband has a bad reaction with the little blue pills can I suggest he tries cialis I have found it has virtually none of the same side effects and he can take a pill a day or one pill for three days and it doesn’t need to be timed for sex.
I wouldn't want to either, and I wouldn't feel comfortable ever again if I was told that. It can be true all day and all night. Best, keep that shit to yourself unless you want my opinions. My opinions cut deep. He might have meant good things, but I'd end up leaving after knowing what he thinks of me. There might be a positive way to spin it. You can embrace it, but you ought to tell him he hurt you and why. Not just what he says because he doesn't understand why what he said hurts because he thinks it was a compliment. You have to tell him why it wasn't.
Sure… you keep telling yourself that. However I'd suggest you look up what an emotional affair is… I am fairly sure you'd recognize a few things. But what does it matter I am just a stranger on the internet you do you.
I agree but it’s not like this is uncommon even remotely
What's that for an L approach? Mature adults talk about these things. OP should just ask why his gf wants this all of the sudden.
It's called a midlife crisis.
Oh dear, you need to revisit your standard of what constitutes sweet and considerate. I’ll say this, he sure has to be those things because he’s an idiot. And as an employer, a female, and someone with 2 working brain cells, your partner would not have made it past the interview round, and would certainly NOT survive in my office.
Maybe he’ll grow up…
May I suggest dating men though… dating a child is kind of frowned upon. You can do better.
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Why do you want to marry somebody who doesn't care about you? He didn't think to include your interests in the prenup. Do you think he's going to have a regard for you after the wedding?
She's trying to leave you in the past but be nice about it
She’s toxic. ACTUALLY toxic for telling you not to show emotions. She need’s therapy
Op if you husband has a bad reaction with the little blue pills can I suggest he tries cialis I have found it has virtually none of the same side effects and he can take a pill a day or one pill for three days and it doesn’t need to be timed for sex.
I wouldn't want to either, and I wouldn't feel comfortable ever again if I was told that. It can be true all day and all night. Best, keep that shit to yourself unless you want my opinions. My opinions cut deep. He might have meant good things, but I'd end up leaving after knowing what he thinks of me. There might be a positive way to spin it. You can embrace it, but you ought to tell him he hurt you and why. Not just what he says because he doesn't understand why what he said hurts because he thinks it was a compliment. You have to tell him why it wasn't.
Sure… you keep telling yourself that. However I'd suggest you look up what an emotional affair is… I am fairly sure you'd recognize a few things. But what does it matter I am just a stranger on the internet you do you.