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If I had been dating someone for a few months, spent as much time as possible with them, had sex, clicked on multiple levels, met their family, etc., then the absolute last thing I’d think about is drunkenly kissing some rando at a party.
IMO, ”technically” she didn’t cheat, but I can’t stand people who hide behind technicalities.
There‘s plenty of possible reasons why she kissed said rando: perhaps she has a massive drinking problem and can’t control herself, perhaps she was self-sabotaging, perhaps she likes the attention, perhaps she’s just not as committed to you as you are to her.
You've been through this before and yet are still making her excuses for her. If this happened to me, I‘d take a couple steps back and reevaluate everything. More importantly, I’d see what she does to show you that this doesn’t happen again.
Or you could break up and find someone else who is so into you that doing dumb shit like this wouldn’t even cross their mind.
When you are ready to go for it. Just make it easy for him. Don't be picky or anything. He'll figure it out over time and then make sure you talk to him after or during to get feedback from him.
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He had made clear that he, along with his parents, believe that bigotry is more important than love. They have already treated their own daughter so horribly, and your husband supported that; can you really trust him to treat your children any better? Your children deserve better.
I think kids are worth it overall. Just isn't always fun and there are a lot of new experiences to work through. Dependency is fraustrating.
It is nice re experiencing the world, in seeing them do and try different things that are new to them
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If I had been dating someone for a few months, spent as much time as possible with them, had sex, clicked on multiple levels, met their family, etc., then the absolute last thing I’d think about is drunkenly kissing some rando at a party.
IMO, ”technically” she didn’t cheat, but I can’t stand people who hide behind technicalities.
There‘s plenty of possible reasons why she kissed said rando: perhaps she has a massive drinking problem and can’t control herself, perhaps she was self-sabotaging, perhaps she likes the attention, perhaps she’s just not as committed to you as you are to her.
You've been through this before and yet are still making her excuses for her. If this happened to me, I‘d take a couple steps back and reevaluate everything. More importantly, I’d see what she does to show you that this doesn’t happen again.
Or you could break up and find someone else who is so into you that doing dumb shit like this wouldn’t even cross their mind.
He never intended for you to sleep in another man's bed!
When you are ready to go for it. Just make it easy for him. Don't be picky or anything. He'll figure it out over time and then make sure you talk to him after or during to get feedback from him.
If he's done talking, he's done talking. So you talk to an attorney.
He had made clear that he, along with his parents, believe that bigotry is more important than love. They have already treated their own daughter so horribly, and your husband supported that; can you really trust him to treat your children any better? Your children deserve better.