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Welcome to our room! Our names are Helen (brunette, glasses) & Mia( blonde) & Alice (Red) ? Privat is open ?, 20 y.o.
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On-line Live Sex Chat rooms Welcome to our room! Our names are Helen (brunette, glasses) & Mia( blonde) & Alice (Red) ? Privat is open ?
Date: October 21, 2022
And what experience do you have to believe that this is the case given you've never actually been to therapy?
I'm not anti vax, but do have to point out a flaw in your logic.
Vaccines don't exist because there's no natural immunity to something. They exist because for many illnesses, the damage you get from having them is enough that it's better to get vaccinated instead.
Polio, for instance – many people survived, with no serious health effects. And many children died, or had lifelong effects such as partial paralysis, lung effects, etc. While the people who did survive without issues were protected from it, the potential damage from getting it made the vaccine by far the better choice. Same with a lot of others.
I mean mistreating someone who looks to you for love, acceptance, and support is a guaranteed way to kill their confidence, dude. If you'd like a gentle relationship with someone, be gentle??? If you want your girlfriend to know her worth and be more confident, maybe try boosting her confidence more, and teaching her how to be more confident, and realize that THE WAY YOU TREAT SOMEONE SHOWS HOW MUCH YOU THINK THEY'RE WORTH You can't say you love someone and then show them the opposite. People who lack confidence are usually scared to try or make decisions choices or they feel defeated unheard etc
Not saying she does feel those things and I'm sure there are things she could do to improve the relationship as well and ultimately she is the only one who gets to decide the kind of person she wants to be and I think both of you would benefit from therapy
This is coming from a 28f who's dealt with similar shit in a couple wild and toxic relationships/working on coping w/ the physical stuff as well and therapy seems to help
I guess what I was getting at originally just to sum this all up and put it into one stupid, simple lil saying is this:
Stop crashing your Tesla and you won't have to ride the bus as much ??‍♀️
you def drank too much and too fast.
Honestly what do you want people to say?
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the perspectives from those that sleep in separate rooms of their partners.
If that's not you, than it's fine, just keep it pushing.
Part of the issue is that husband plays down MIL behaviors as “just the way she is” and “she isn't going to change” and allows them because “she is the only grandparent our kids have left” (his Dad died suddenly 6 years ago, my Dad died in an accident 19 years ago). I would love to cut them out, but I would never make my husband choose between his family and me. I will leave him before that ever happens.
He's getting a rare taste of alone time. When my wife and I are away, we talk, but it's not the same as when we're home together. He's doing the things he would normally do when you're not around.
I don't think it's a bad thing, but if you need more communication then you need to call him. Texts are too easy to open and forget, or think you responded and didn't or whatever. I used to get pissed when someone wouldn't respond to a text from me but now I see that I do it more often than it happens to me.
Yep u were correct.
FWIW after we spoke he messaged asking me to clearly explain how I felt, and his reply was
“Thank you.
No, two days doesn't make you unreasonable. I'm sorry.
I think I get emotional at times or jump to conclusions or my mind races forward with things and pre-works out stuff, kind of maybe like how I'd often read ahead in class at school so when the class finally caught up to where I was because everyone else went at a mundane pace, I could answer questions with my eyes shut or without looking at the text book, I'd look like i'm daydreaming but I could still answer it on point.
So kind of like that, I think I saw you asking for this and the way I interpreted it or something I don't know the right words, it felt like a door opening and ok so if this happens then how often or when will it happen again or is it ongoing or getting more frequent etc.
And then in this case I got more defensive and like you've said I take things to extremes, and it felt like or sounded like in my mind that you were asking for no one to be home when you're working.
I can certainly understand with both your own circumstances with your girls vs what I have with my kids, and with all the effort you have put in supporting me to support my kids, that you would feel hurt and upset that I can't give you two days.
That must be really upsetting and frustrating and make you feel very angry, and i'm sorry.
What two days were you asking for specifically?”
It seems like he was upset feeling I was asking for more than I was (two days) and in the context of our relationship he does feel it was reasonable but was emotional and defensive at the time.
RUN
The fact he isn't ashamed enough and had the gull to come back, he deserves it.
OP also can’t change the fact he was a teen parent and shouldn’t be punished for things he can’t control. He’s done everything right and more. She’s had so many luxuries paid for (car, school, rent) that most people would be extremely grateful to have covered. Should her siblings be treated with less compassion to placate her irrational sense of entitlement? This girl also CHOSE to lose her job and blamed it on her dad. She’s 25 and wants to be independent, time to grow up and start acting like an adult
29 is too old to not understand that this behavior is not ok.
How has he not got scurvy or some other serious nutritional deficits…
My depression and low self esteem make me care about other people more than myself. I’ll bend over backwards to take care of the people that I love, regardless of how bad I might feel.
Are you a fool? Yes.
We're both pretty low libido because of the meds we take.
They have knitting and crochet tea parties, bars are not really her thing.
And I mean she lives on the artsy side of instagram but that's porobably not what you've in mind
Everything was fine until this situation lmao. And I didn’t say I felt unsafe I said it was freezing outside and I had to walk a bit. He takes care of his mother who has dementia that’s why he chooses to live in a pretty guarded apartment building so that she can’t escape outside and get lost.
Open relationships aren’t for everyone. I know myself well enough to know I couldn’t find happiness in one, and that’s okay. I’m in a monogamous marriage now, and if my wife ever asked to change that and open our relationship up, I’d be gone. Not because I want to lose her, but because I owe it to myself not to agree to something I know would make me deeply unhappy.
It’s normal to be 19-21 and to be curious about what else is out there. It’s also normal to have a shit ton of anxiety about “giving up” a partner to explore that curiosity, so an open relationship can seem like a compromise or a best of both worlds scenario. But while I know this will probably be unpopular, I really think pursuing open relationships have become a trend lately rather than a genuine, respectful exploration of non-monogamy. Polyamory and non-monogamy should start with a sincere interest/desire to have an open, ethical relationship, and to be successful it requires a lot of self-awareness and honesty.
But more and more, people are considering them as an “alternative” to infidelity, which just … isn’t apples to apples at all. And you can’t sidestep the damage infidelity caused by just slapping a preemptive “open relationship!” label on what you and your partner have. If your partner is just coming at it from a selfish, insincere place to try and avoid the consequences and guilt after infidelity, they have no business making this request of you.
Relationships (especially in your early 20’s) are messy, complicated, and constantly changing – which is why it’s critical that you identify and communicate clear boundaries for what you need in a relationship and what will make you happy, not just what you are willing to suffer through to hopefully be with your partner in the end.
If being with other people and knowing your partner is with other people won’t make you feel secure, comfortable, and happy, then you need to walk away and find someone that aligns with what you are looking for.
Your situation sounds more like a FWB relationship. While looking for others.
I’m right brain….. can design and be creative…but man…my left side of the brain is mushy…. I’m sure your right side of your brain has helped the business tremendously!
we have 3 cars, and he uses that one only for his dates, so that me and my sons will never notice anything
This is what did it for me..
He bought an extra car that he only takes out when he’s going on dates. But it’s a secret so the kids won’t know he’s cheating… where do they park this car? Is he paying for a storage unit in addition to an extra car payment? How in any way would this hide things from this kids? It’s so half thought out ??‍♀️
Your post lacks a question. As per Rule 2, all posts must feature a question that you want specifically answering. We don't host, rants, vents, letters to other people, poetry, journal entries, hypotheticals or 'what would you do' posts, or reflections on past experiences to give other people lessons.
We are here for you to ask specific relationship issue with a current relationship you have right now, in this moment.
Absolutely not. He is your coworker and he could ruin your profession life/income if he doesnt take it well. Too risky. Wait it out. Like a lot more.
Fraud. Waste and abuse. That’s what lying about your health falls under. It’s a moot point though
I definitely need to work on this. It is honestly so very hot to be calm because it seems as if our arguments are repetitive and repetitive over the same basic thing. But your right, I need to make sure I am more calm moving forward.
Manipulation to get what he want. Give him the freedom to find another option, he probably already has.
Get tested for STD's and give him his walking papers. Its not going to get any better
You deserve to find someone you loves you for who you are, not what they want to to turn into.
Stop tolerating him at all. He isn't getting the message, and to a degree it's because by not totally rebuffing him, he feels you are encouraging him – or at least, leaving the door open.
Tell him, privately (no need to embarrass him in front of others), that you don't even want to be friends at this point and to stay away from you at work. Also, block him everywhere on your personal social accounts, although you shouldn't block him on company accounts in case he has a legitimate business reason to contact you.
If this continues, give him one warning that your next step will be to talk to HR. Then if he still follows you around, talk to HR! He'll almost certainly be given the message from his supervisor that it has to end or he's risking his job.