To add- my Spouse would rather go out numerous times a week, and hang out with a particular friend that recently moved but visits often. This friend is the one that they “kissed when they had a little too much to drink.” I’m friends and coworker with a Marine who insists that no matter how many times he drank, he’s never kissed his buddies…
First, you are not garbage. Second, he is and has been cheating on you. You need to be honest with yourself. You also need to hold him accountable. He doesn't even seem to be sorry or regretful about his behavior. That means that it will not stop.
Do not be afraid of telling your family. You need support. He has betrayed you and broken your marriage. Talk to your aunt. My advice is to file for divorce.
This is all so terrifying. I convinced my mom to contact a therapist for herself and figure out her best options moving forward. So that hopefully nothing seriously bad happens to her.
I suggest you make the long-distance relationship permanent. That way you can stay in control of your life, and he can take care of his parents. He's made it perfectly clear that you are not his first priority, so chew on that for awhile before you make any life-changing decisions.
OP there is no right answer just do you. Deal with it when you want to. The problem isn’t going anywhere. But, time with you mom is priceless. Enjoy her while you can.
To add- my Spouse would rather go out numerous times a week, and hang out with a particular friend that recently moved but visits often. This friend is the one that they “kissed when they had a little too much to drink.” I’m friends and coworker with a Marine who insists that no matter how many times he drank, he’s never kissed his buddies…
Considering you've groomed her into submission for years, I'd say you absolutely do! /s
You're disgusting, I hope she realizes this soon because her baby is at stake now, too. You do not deserve a child with her.
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First, you are not garbage. Second, he is and has been cheating on you. You need to be honest with yourself. You also need to hold him accountable. He doesn't even seem to be sorry or regretful about his behavior. That means that it will not stop.
Do not be afraid of telling your family. You need support. He has betrayed you and broken your marriage. Talk to your aunt. My advice is to file for divorce.
This would legally be sexual harassment, not sexual assault. Still extremely harmful and toxic AF.
Honestly I’d feel honored if someone wanted to copy on of my tattoos. It means I have cool ideas and they don’t 🙂 don’t let it get to you
This is all so terrifying. I convinced my mom to contact a therapist for herself and figure out her best options moving forward. So that hopefully nothing seriously bad happens to her.
I suggest you make the long-distance relationship permanent. That way you can stay in control of your life, and he can take care of his parents. He's made it perfectly clear that you are not his first priority, so chew on that for awhile before you make any life-changing decisions.
Please do try. It's all you really can do. I'm very sorry for those kids.
OP there is no right answer just do you. Deal with it when you want to. The problem isn’t going anywhere. But, time with you mom is priceless. Enjoy her while you can.