Nah. This is disrespectful. Some random college guy she never brought up? He's an old fling who I'm sure if you asked she definitely, completely 100% has zero feelings for whatsoever.
Why give this any thought at all! You tried it, you asked him to do stuff the way you like, he ignored the fuck out of you. For that simple act alone it's a nope, then there's all the spam and the pet names.
Really this does not deserve a reddit post. Instant dump is the solution and then we can all get on with our lives
Don't worry about it. If she doesn't remember, maybe she could have also been thinkinyou were someone else. If she is happy with you and not complaining, you're good. She could have also just been joking.
It sounds like you’re communicating perfectly right? You know why he is upset, and he knows your convictions are too strong to change.
I’m trying to imagine what therapy could accomplish and coming up blank. Would it realistically open up his eyes to how great polyamory can be? Or would it cause you to reconsider whether polyamory is something you need?
You both seem to have your heels dug in on some fundamental differences. If you can imagine a compromise of any kind, then therapy could totally be helpful. Just gotta think about what that looks like.
Nah. This is disrespectful. Some random college guy she never brought up? He's an old fling who I'm sure if you asked she definitely, completely 100% has zero feelings for whatsoever.
Why give this any thought at all! You tried it, you asked him to do stuff the way you like, he ignored the fuck out of you. For that simple act alone it's a nope, then there's all the spam and the pet names.
Really this does not deserve a reddit post. Instant dump is the solution and then we can all get on with our lives
Thank you so much for this.
Yay
Don't worry about it. If she doesn't remember, maybe she could have also been thinkinyou were someone else. If she is happy with you and not complaining, you're good. She could have also just been joking.
It's not what you have but how you use it
It sounds like you’re communicating perfectly right? You know why he is upset, and he knows your convictions are too strong to change.
I’m trying to imagine what therapy could accomplish and coming up blank. Would it realistically open up his eyes to how great polyamory can be? Or would it cause you to reconsider whether polyamory is something you need?
You both seem to have your heels dug in on some fundamental differences. If you can imagine a compromise of any kind, then therapy could totally be helpful. Just gotta think about what that looks like.
what do you mean by 'his identity was not a problem before'?
It’s really not. She doesn’t support financially so she repays me with affection and sexual things. It’s the least she can do
You are not financially compatible and this could cause lots of problems and resentment down the road