I suggested a prenuptial to my now ex when we got married. He didn't feel it was necessary (I had nothing he had lots). My guess is he probably regretted the when we got divorced 12 years later. Prenuptial are to protect both parties. No one expects to get divorced but considering almost half of all marriages end up in divorce….I never thought I would divorce my last ex. Also my ex turned into an AH once we were in the process after having said he wasn't wanting to screw me over. It ended up working out fine but once people get divorced they change no matter how much they say they won't.
Most importantly though….don't get married if yiu don't want to. Accept you're not compatible and move on. Why did you gf stay with you if she knew this all along??
Asking the real questions here!
I suggested a prenuptial to my now ex when we got married. He didn't feel it was necessary (I had nothing he had lots). My guess is he probably regretted the when we got divorced 12 years later. Prenuptial are to protect both parties. No one expects to get divorced but considering almost half of all marriages end up in divorce….I never thought I would divorce my last ex. Also my ex turned into an AH once we were in the process after having said he wasn't wanting to screw me over. It ended up working out fine but once people get divorced they change no matter how much they say they won't.
Most importantly though….don't get married if yiu don't want to. Accept you're not compatible and move on. Why did you gf stay with you if she knew this all along??