I don’t mean to be rude, but I’m stunned that you were able to type this without thinking “oh my god, my boyfriend is an awful person, maybe I need to run”… I don’t like to be the “break up with him” person but I think in this case it’s undeniable. He’s essentially sexually harassing you while you’re grieving. I’m sorry, and I’m sorry that you’ve spent 3 years with him – best time to get him out of your life would’ve been 3 years ago, second best time is today. Best of luck.
A person who loves you will never put their hands on you. I don’t think you appreciate how close to death you came. If you were blacking out you were literally minutes from being dead. The next time he may not let go. You need to stay away and never go back.
You have no one but people on the internet might be able to help. The most important thing right now is getting you out and somewhere safe without him knowing.
Your friends are an hour away but can you stay with them without him getting to you? Worst case scenario a redditor can Uber you the money to go and you can pack your id and papers and leave when he’s not looking. We can help you get an Uber to a woman’s shelter? You WILL die. It’s not an if, it’s a when. Let’s make an escape plan and I’ll help you. You can dm me or share numbers or something but you need to get out without him noticing. The news article is from Ohio. Are you in Cleveland now?
Step 1: can you stay with friends? Are you a part of a church group? Have you looked up domestic violence shelters/assistance programs? Do you have a job?
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I don’t mean to be rude, but I’m stunned that you were able to type this without thinking “oh my god, my boyfriend is an awful person, maybe I need to run”… I don’t like to be the “break up with him” person but I think in this case it’s undeniable. He’s essentially sexually harassing you while you’re grieving. I’m sorry, and I’m sorry that you’ve spent 3 years with him – best time to get him out of your life would’ve been 3 years ago, second best time is today. Best of luck.
That makes sense and I agree with you. Thanks for that clarity
rejected! oh well 😛
A person who loves you will never put their hands on you. I don’t think you appreciate how close to death you came. If you were blacking out you were literally minutes from being dead. The next time he may not let go. You need to stay away and never go back.
You have no one but people on the internet might be able to help. The most important thing right now is getting you out and somewhere safe without him knowing.
Your friends are an hour away but can you stay with them without him getting to you? Worst case scenario a redditor can Uber you the money to go and you can pack your id and papers and leave when he’s not looking. We can help you get an Uber to a woman’s shelter? You WILL die. It’s not an if, it’s a when. Let’s make an escape plan and I’ll help you. You can dm me or share numbers or something but you need to get out without him noticing. The news article is from Ohio. Are you in Cleveland now?
Step 1: can you stay with friends? Are you a part of a church group? Have you looked up domestic violence shelters/assistance programs? Do you have a job?
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Oh well I apologize, I guess I was mistaken as to what “manchild” meant.