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1. OK….I assume you would like some guidance and I have some to give

   though it may not sound very pleasant to hear it.

   1.) Based on your own report you allowed a past relationship to not just

   intrude, but to take up residence in your current bond. This was an on-going

   pattern or impulse, deceit and selfishness. You were responsible for debreifing

   from your earlier Bond so you could give all you had to the new Bond. You

   didn't, and the result was months of chaos the New SO had no control over,

   and was unjustly required to endure.

   2.) Your New SO was connected to you and you purposely misrepresented conditions

   so as to keep him enmeshed. To his credit he continued to have hope but is

   understandably bitter at the betrayal of the Bonds' Trust.

   3.) Your Old SO is just barely less guilty of this as it plain from your report that

   he protracted the drama and quite possibly reveled in the trauma inflicted on

   your new Bond. I have no window into his heart so I can't know his motive,

   however your report makes it clear that he contributed to drawing out this

   shit-storm…..and you colluded with him.

   4.) Not sure what influence you have over the New SO but by your report it

   is apparently waning. IMHO your New SO would be well within his rights

   to show you the door. If you have ANY intent on salvaging what you had

   you will probably be expected to submit to a kind of “probationary” connection

   until consistency of Behavior supports your intent to commit to the new Bond.

   Most folks would simply give this shit-storm a decent burial and move on,

   but you asked so I gave you my take on this. FWIW.

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2. That's a fair point. I just don't want the reputation of being a TERF when I'm a member of the LGBTQ community myself

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3. Directly from the post that you wrote

   “Once the nausea kicked in, I couldn't maintain my job anymore” … “I am suddenly out of a job”

   You didn't quit, but you don't have income, either. Is this really the time to argue the tiny, insignificant detail about if you quit or took a leave of absence or were fired or whatever? You have no income. That's the basic point the commenter was touching on, not if you walked up to your boss and said “I quit”.

   Tbh, from your comments, you don't seem mature enough to raise a kid, and the father very obviously doesn't want to be with you or the kid. You seem resistant to people's advice, and combative when you hear something you don't like. This is going to be an extremely difficult uphill road for you.

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4. New job called old job for reference

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5. Honestly, 8’s pretty good. If you go on the truerateme subreddit and look at their rating scale you’ll see that you’re in very good company, like Margot Robbie standard.

   He should have continued the sentence like “you’re an 8 but to me you’re a perfect 10”

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6. He lied by omission on purpose due to his fears and wants. What does that tell you about him? About how he will treat future issues?

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7. No. But people who care about their friends and ask for advice on how to help them shouldn't get told “don't even try, go no contact”

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