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Again, I’ve reiterated many times it is not normal and absolutely is irrational behavior in my post and my comments. I only add that many people feel this way because it is something that gets dealt with and people will have advice on, not to normalize it. Her being ugly is an honesty. It makes me wonder what traits could have been so amazing that he stayed even though she treated him poorly and was unliked by his friends and her peers, it’s not a snark (maybe only a bit) it’s a detail that adds to my confusion.
Alternatively, what’s your problem with the phrasing? What set you off so much about it that you overlooked the commonality of the term and my complete denouncing it’s value in my life or in general. You heard “crazy” and saw red, don’t blame me for trying to figure my shit out.
I understand that. Which is all the reason NOT to rush into things. That leads to unhealthy relationships, and eventually divorce. And then you're 30+, with baggage.
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My piercings actually have no effect on my employability I don't think. Due to my autoimmune disease I wear a mask everywhere I go so all interviews I've done they don't know I have them. My partner is not upset with me because they know I am trying as hard as possible to get a job and picking up every shift someone offers.
Good for you. I am so sorry that this happened. I asked my husband if he can imagine how nude it would be to go through what you went through- he said no I really can't. I can't either. I hope that you find a lovely wife who loves to give you 100% of herself.
I’ve never been shady at all towards him. I am absolutely happy in my relationship so his reaction caught me off guard
Do you really want to be with a guy who quite recently was this involved in this sort of fantasies?
I'd nope so fast. His browser history must be quite something.
You’re just jealous
I have a similar situation in my relationship.
My girlfriend's mind stuck on the fact that 90% of men cheat. And even after 10/15/25/30 years of the marriage, they still cheat. And EVEN if I showed her stats and data openly found on the internet where it says that actually 16% of men and 13% of women cheat – this doesn't help.
My situation is that no matters what I do or say, I always feel that I will be looked at though cheating lens all the time. Oh, I looked at other woman in gym = I want to get that booty. I have to do business with my colleagues = I want to spend 1on1 time with these women. I had previous relationships = I am still not over them (even if I never actually think of them let alone mention them) and want to get back.
I don't want to defend myself all the time from the accusations which have no ground and are just insecurities. Luckily, we are both adults and are able to voice our opinions and discuss things to work them out. I need to point out that I was not quite flipped out but got hostile the more times this was mentioned. Being suspected of something you haven't event thought about is fine in the beginning, but then it piles up and you start to think that she considers you as an infidel which is demoralizing. If you voice your suspicions multiple times without any proof to back it up, you basically call him an infidel when he's not. Imagine if he's going to call you infidel multiple times without backing it up? You'd be pissed.
If you are looking at your husband though cheating lens, please don't. Unless you have a solid reason to suspect him, please don't consider him as a cheater. It should be innocent until proven guilty, not the other way. You can suspect things, but unless you have a solid proof to accuse him, you better keep these suspicions behind your teeth.
To add to it, if he's cheating and/or want a divorce, you can't change his mind and neither he deserves you. Stop worrying about it and just observe. If it is what you think it is, just act accordingly to the situation. Don't make a mountain out of the molehill.
Your bf is an alcoholic. You should break up with him. Don't be his enabler.
You are struggling to get over a married man who you only know through flirting for a few weeks? Seems a bit too dramatic. You only know what he’s told you in a controlled setting and you’re also assuming he’s not lied about any of it. Cut some bangs and get a therapist.
He sounds very emotionally abusive and manipulative. While you may not realize it now, you just dodged a MASSIVE bullet. Time to start the healing process and move forward! You’re SO YOUNG! I didn’t get engaged until a few weeks before I turned 27.
I do not want to be in a poly relationship
That's your answer. Let her know you aren't interested in the idea. If she wants to date him as well, you'll have to leave, as you can't do poly. Don't make it an ultimatum, somehow. But yeah, it's definitely whack in all levels. Wouldn't be surprised if she's been seeing him on the side before anyway.
But, if you're not comfortable, you're not comfortable. Either move on from her, or deal with it. If she's interested in dating more than one person now, and you're not into that idea, then she's likely going to continue being into that idea while you aren't, so it's just not meant to be. Time to move on, and avoid heartbreak and stress
Sometimes, when you're under exceptionally bad circumstances, you can have a reaction this bad. Me recommendation would be that you speak with your girlfriend and see if she's ready to talk about what's really going on. Maybe she isn't aware herself.
In my case, when it happened to me, my boyfriend at the time was an alcoholic, we had a 2 year old daughter and I was doing nearly everything with her on my own, I had depression, anxiety, my boyfriend abused me verbally and psychologically and coerced me to have sex with him when I could feel no libido at all because of all those other things, and I also spent a year at a job where I was harassed by my boss as well. We were going to go to the cinema watch a movie that I had been waiting for for a long time, my first time going back to the cinema since having our daughter, it was a suggestion from the family therapists that we were seeing. Well, we were getting ready and my boyfriend was being a dick (later I realised he was drunk), our kid was throwing a tantrum, I had my period and couldn't fit the cup properly, still had to finish getting ready and preparing the kid to go with the neighbors, and at that moment it really felt like I couldn't catch an effing break, not even for the simplest of things… And I lost it, I just lost it. I knew I was being ridiculous while losing it, and still couldn't stop myself.
Each person has a different breaking point, and it may even evolve over time. Try to see where it really is coming from, and you may figure out together a way to help her. It really sounds to me like there's something else there.