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Languages: en
Birth Date: 1999-01-20
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityIndian
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: October 16, 2022
hi! i am the baby mom & i did tell him over & over & over again i was going to get therapy & i agreed with space & let him know i was trying to get better. there’s no excuse for putting my hands on someone & breaking their belongings i completely understand that & my emotions got the best of me & i’ve apologized multiple times. the reason why things got to that point is bc i wasn’t getting any help with my child & i was going through many emotions .. at that time she was only 3 months old she’s now 7 months & one of the biggest emotion I was feeling was frustration. i was with him for 3 years .. & we both didn’t treat each other right. i used to post about what he would do on here to get advice so i understand why he posted this. i had my baby in may of 2022 & august of 2022 is when this had transpired. i wasn’t getting help with our child i had to do every single thing by myself & trust me i tried & tried to have a conversation & communicate before things got out of hand bc that’s what happened before with BOTH of us & all he did was ignore me. i was always there for him & i loved him .. i still do but he told me even if i go to therapy he still wouldn’t wanna be with me. i tried & rn i have my baby alone every single day bc he didn’t want to step up as a father. my baby was never put in harms way , after we lost our apartment i moved in with my parents but it was hot for him to see my daughter so then i moved into my grams to where I knew I’d have more leverage BUT i was also uncomfortable for months but i did it bc i wanted him to see my baby. nothing from his family was ever done for my baby & he never did anything either.. his whole family talks bad about me & doesn’t respect me & his mother smokes weed in the house, has a bunch of animals, etc. The environment is not safe for my child & the reason why I was not letting her over his dads is because of his dads gf who felt entitled to speak on things that didn’t concern her/ ask for my baby’s social security # .. etc. but I never ever ever kept him from his daughter. him & his dad just got into something not to long ago to where he was forced to move out into a more unstable environment. this current house was broken into by the cops due to his brother doing illegal things. there’s a lot more to the story .. for example about 2 years ago i posted about him watching porn while he was with me & other toxic things & people in the comments told me to leave him just like how you guys are telling him to leave me. people make mistakes & i know i need help but so does he. i offered couples therapy, i offered therapy together to help us co parent, I brought up individual therapy, etc. but he denied all of that. he lets other people think for him & that’s why we aren’t together. i love him so much & i can say that very confidently regardless of how many people a day tell me to leave him for good. my parents don’t disrespect him , my parents actually did a lot for him & would treat him like a son. he’d spend every holiday with my family bc he didn’t feel comfortable around his own. what he didn’t like was the constructive criticism he was getting from my family due to not being a good dad. He’d rather get it from strangers who don’t really know him as you can see. Thank you for the feedback tho! what I did was wrong & i told him I was truly sorry. all I wanted to do was get better for ourselves & our daughter. I tried ! & still till this day try. I know actions speak louder than words & I move only by actions not words. That’s why im now filing for child support bc I only get $100 from him every 2 weeks for my daughter & im filing for full custody bc I get no help.
thanks again!
i was a lot like her at 14/15, i ended up losing my virginity 2 months after turning 15. i was sexually irresponsible but also i was a child and groomed by an older guy. sometimes you just have to on-line with it and get through it and deal with the consequences.
my older sister tried to talk me out of it, but my mind was made up and i did what i wanted to because i thought i was grown and i lived with it. i’m not saying you should give up on her, but sometimes you have to appeal and treat them like they essentially know what they’re doing.
for me, the more my sister tried to treat me like a dumb young girl, the less i opened up to her & trusted her with information & you’re doing the right thing by not going to your parents. if my sister had gone to my parents & they had lashed out at me with extreme measures, i probably wouldn’t be as reformed as i am today because i went through the process & i’ve learnt a lot by growing up fast and i’m saying this as i’m almost turning 21 myself
Don’t salvage that “friendship”, it’s not. She wants your bf and wanted his attention. She sounds very insecure and seems like she wanted his validation as a way for her to feel like she’s “better” than you. She’s “angry” at you bc your bf wants you and wanted to get away from her, that’s how you embarrassed her ?. I know you and Mimi have been “friends” for a long time but do you really think a true friend would try to seduce your partner, even if they’re drunk? The answer is NO. No true friend would do that.
Yeah I agree. The bandmate was only my gift/ticket out of a shitty marriage but he turned out to be a really good person for me.
Dump her because this is super shady behavior. In a functional relationship you have a conversation, you don't go straight to threatening legal action. Whatever her deal is, it's HER deal…don't make it yours.
This is a great observation
I don’t disagree. OP should find someone that loves all of her. And 3 months in is really when your SO parades you around for everyone to meet.
Being an infp I believe in true love and finding your soulmate
A healthy feeling of “soulmate” is most often from deep understanding, routine emotional validation often on the sixth level (google six levels of validation in relationships if not familiar) and familiarity. You can find this in someone, but you can also build it and you can also lose it. So it’s not something inherent or permanent. But when you do feel it, it can be strong and very compelling.
That said from your description what you for O and still have for O sounds like it started as a crush, that’s often from finding in them something you’re missing in your life. What you should have done is break it off with O the moment it got to even a small crush, figure out what that was you were missing in your life that O had and cultivate it in your life either in yourself, with a platonic friend, or with your current partner L. Instead you emotionally cheated. Not cool.
Then you were experiencing the fun honeymoon stage of a crush, but that either calms down into love, or goes bad when the honeymoon period ends, and that’s exactly what happened to you, it went bad. Then you go back to L? So not ok. At least you recognize that was wrong, that you used him as a rebound. But then you dream of O, even though he betrayed you? Come on, this is ridiculous, Os not your soul mate, sounds like he just is better with connecting to you on an emotional level than L. So work on that with L. And to add insult to injury you unblock O, so you opened that door to emotionally cheat again on L? Wtf? Poor L.
So short version, break up with L, he deserves better. As for O, date him or don’t, hot to say because you give no details of the betrayal. You’re feelings now for him could still just be due to a crush, limerance, love bombing on Os part, trauma bonding depending on the betrayal, or you romanticizing what you dont currently have, thinking the honeymoon stage is love, when it’s just a stage.
It is easier to say than implement. Stay strong.
She is 5'1 and 215 lbs. Her bmi is 40.8. That would mean that she is not just obese but morbidly obese. She just doesn't want to be accountable for her health and is wanting you to also become morbidly obese.
If I were you I'd hit the gym and put on muscle out of spite. Put on some muscle mass and really prove a point.
She's never going to change and wants you to have a health condition to satisfy her ego. Might as well break up.