0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for on-line sex video chat Yourhotstar
Model from: in
Languages: en
Birth Date: 2001-03-17
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityAsian
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBlack
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: October 12, 2022
So you’re going to stay with a rapist who’s into incest ?
How does the contract prevent her from not enjoying the experience and then resenting you for it? It doesn't prevent that at all. It doesn't prevent her from breaking up with you over it.
The only thing a 'contract' does give you any security for is being accused of assault legally, and so asking her to sign is, yes, suggesting that you think she might ask for this and then later accuse you of assault.
Don't do it if you're not comfortable, but it's not great to level an accusation like that at someone even if you didn't do it directly.
Girl you must be a saint because I would have dumped him once he showed that he was going to be that petty and childish. I do NOT have the patience for that crap.
I believe this satisfies both my civil duty and my social duty. Thank you✌?)
If it wasn't a problem for you when you were together….it's not civil duty. You're just a resentful piece of shit.
If she needed “life saving surgery” for a stroke, I sincerely doubt she's in any shape to ask for her phone let alone use it. I've cared for a few people post stroke, and none of them have been “100% mentally there” for weeks after the surgery and they definately didn't have then fine motor control to use a cell phone.
He wasn't even going to tell you.
Ask yourself what other dumb shit has he maybe done that he's never told you about?
This is so easy to think that protecting = treating better, if you haven’t actually grown up female in a household like this and realise that it’s women’s job to keep themselves from wanting anything or going anywhere.
Why would you downvote a person who need advice ? Pleaae someone just gice advice dont be so rude.
Recognizing what you're doing wrong is a good start. Talk to him about why he feels he has to lie to you about things. It'll probably be a super long talk, and it also might take several days because there's multiple steps. Bringing up the issue, giving him space to really think about the answer, him finding out what he needs to feel secure enough to communicate, and what he needs going forward.
For you, you'll need to listen to his words. Don't necessarily try to focus on whether or not you think he's right to feel a certain way. Remember it's you two as a team versus the issue, you should be solving it together. Some of it could be naked to hear, and it's okay for you to need space to think and process. Make sure to communicate that, like saying “hey I'm not mad but I need to process a bit and I'll contact you again soon. If you really need something, you can call, but right now I just need time.” Giving yourself a time limit on when to contact again is also a good idea.
I think it's also important to be able to shelf issues, both for strenuous circumstances and in general. It is exhausting to be constantly working on fixing something, and it's important to balance talking about the issue and just behaving normally. Sometimes it can feel awkward at first or fake, but when you get used to being like “okay I'm upset about X but I don't want to talk about it right now/I'm not in the place to have that discussion right now, so we can come back to it later and just act like we usually would”, it gets easier and it makes relationships a lot healthier. Like long term, there's going to be issues in any relationship. It's important to be able to “pause” the issue and just online life, as long as you eventually come back to it later