I’ve just been so depressed without them (we were 5 years together and my world eventually revolved around them). I have lost all sense of self and am trying to find it again. Them giving me attention feels good but I know I shouldn’t give in.
Yes they’re so used to me saying yes to everything they need and want me to do because I could never say no without them somehow understanding it as being a disrespectful kid, and they actually said to me the other day that I used to always say yes why do I keep saying no now!! It’s as if I don’t have a mind of my own to make decisions!
Thank you! It won’t be easy or quick but hopefully it will get sorted!
It was a party lol we Got there first. 26
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Wow – sounds like she has the emotional maturity of a toddler.
Seriously man, she blocked you, knowing the situation?
And you feel obligated to feel bad after she’s treating you like shit?
You’re in an emotionally abusive relationship, my friend.
I’ve just been so depressed without them (we were 5 years together and my world eventually revolved around them). I have lost all sense of self and am trying to find it again. Them giving me attention feels good but I know I shouldn’t give in.
I care A LOT LESS about me than a baby or someone more vulnerable than I am. Better me than them, I say.
How did she contact you?
Yes they’re so used to me saying yes to everything they need and want me to do because I could never say no without them somehow understanding it as being a disrespectful kid, and they actually said to me the other day that I used to always say yes why do I keep saying no now!! It’s as if I don’t have a mind of my own to make decisions!
Thank you! It won’t be easy or quick but hopefully it will get sorted!