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Date: October 24, 2022
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And marriage doesn’t really mean shit either lol it’s a piece of paper
I agree with your statement. But if you travel around with someone and see them multiple times… that’s different. You won’t do that with someone unless you actually enjoy their company. You can make more money elsewhere so why waste their time if you don’t enjoy their company
If OP chooses to be petty, she should do so in a place where he can't retaliate. I'd worry for OP's safety if she went back to her bf.
This whole situation is sketchy as hell.
Thank you for your comment. He definitely isn't having an affair. I agree with you about the lack of affection. I have even noticed that he holds my hand less in the street and I think that can't be down to stress … Can it? And I agree about not sacrificing my mental health, I am constantly questioning whether he wants to be with me and I find myself craving mode physical affection e.g cuddles or holding hands
Thank you for your quick reply.
Initially I agreed with him, but then after processing it all, I thought back and realised it wasn’t entirely true. I enjoyed seeing my best mate, enjoyed playing games & watching movies, spending time with my family etc. Obviously he felt a certain way about it though.
May I inbox you to discuss further at all? There’s some things I’d like to remain somewhat private.
Depending on the type of trauma she experienced, it CAN last for life and “normal” therapy alone doesn't help. Additionally, when the trauma is severe, getting to therapy can be very hot for a plethora of reasons, including not realizing how deep the trauma actually goes and having to relive painful memories. Maybe you cant fully understand it, but you can potentially empathize enough to be a shoulder for her. She will need to learn what causes her to trigger her reactions and work backwards from there to find the root of her issues and doing so alone is not just incredibly difficult, it can almost be more painful than the original event. For that reason, trying to “convince” her to go to therapy likely won't work. If you want to research the long term effects of cPTSD and openly discuss it with her, maybe the two of you can venture through her healing together. That way, when she's ready for therapy, you both are and you'll know how to better support her.