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Geez its only $1500, not $15,000. It's different if it would really strain your finances, but it doesn't. I don't believe in repeatedly bailing someone out, but a one time $1500 in an emergency is not a lot of money.
i feel like things have just recently gone down hill and this is his way or trying to make me leave which i’ll admit i am attached i’ve been with him since i was 18. but why is he saying that to me? is it something i did to provoke him to start saying this ?
I had this problem too. Dudes only initiate once or twice a month and reject me when I try to start something. So I'm never going to be monogamous again
I've been in her shoes. When we first moved in together, my (now) husband was covering most of the rent and I was paying a contribution but most of the other bills. But he held it over my head with stupid jokes and wisecracks that the house was his. One evening I had had enough and told him that he was being hurtful, making me feel really insecure and vulnerable in my own home. He listened, apologised for it and most importantly, there hasn't been a single incidence in the 10 years since. He still makes stupid jokes, those ones are just completely off the table.
All this to say that if this is the first time she has blown up, about it, you may be able to turn this around but if this is something you have been niggling at her for a while (which seems more likely if you have already been to therapy about it) and she has talked until she is blue in the face to try to get you to understand, anything you say or do now is probably too little, much too late.
Unless a person is into BDSM, genuinely likes to be hurt, and has given enthusiastic consent, NO contact with your partner should leave a mark or lingering pain. If you had a disease or condition that made you bruise easily, IMO that would make it even more troublesome that you are constantly left with bruises or marks, as they are still signs of subcutaneous damage, and you bf isnt taking care. (It might be a good thing to talk to a doctor about it.) My point there being–it makes no difference if you're more “sensitive” than most–this is not normal or acceptable.
You have repeatedly told him not to hurt you, made it clear what activities are unacceptable, and he still repeatedly (maybe even habitually) has left you with marks and bruises. It is not playful or loving, it is abuse and assault. It sounds to me almost like he is intentionally visibly marking you as his “property” and mixing pain with sexual activity as a further act of physical and sexual domination. Please find a partner who respects your boundaries and seeks to preserve your bodily autonomy and health.
Geez its only $1500, not $15,000. It's different if it would really strain your finances, but it doesn't. I don't believe in repeatedly bailing someone out, but a one time $1500 in an emergency is not a lot of money.
i feel like things have just recently gone down hill and this is his way or trying to make me leave which i’ll admit i am attached i’ve been with him since i was 18. but why is he saying that to me? is it something i did to provoke him to start saying this ?
“Even in terms of her own life – getting new glasses, making doctors appointments, getting clothes for work – I do an awful lot of it.”
Stop! she's an adult, you're not her parent, you're her partner
I'll give you the same advice I give to people who are jobseeking.
You let THEM tell you that.
He sexually assaulted you. You did NOTHING wrong by reacting in self defense and fighting back.
And honestly, ild dump someone who sexually assaults me and gets mad that i dared to fight back
I had this problem too. Dudes only initiate once or twice a month and reject me when I try to start something. So I'm never going to be monogamous again
What’s a “normal” amount to get yelled at by your partner?
ZERO.
I've been in her shoes. When we first moved in together, my (now) husband was covering most of the rent and I was paying a contribution but most of the other bills. But he held it over my head with stupid jokes and wisecracks that the house was his. One evening I had had enough and told him that he was being hurtful, making me feel really insecure and vulnerable in my own home. He listened, apologised for it and most importantly, there hasn't been a single incidence in the 10 years since. He still makes stupid jokes, those ones are just completely off the table.
All this to say that if this is the first time she has blown up, about it, you may be able to turn this around but if this is something you have been niggling at her for a while (which seems more likely if you have already been to therapy about it) and she has talked until she is blue in the face to try to get you to understand, anything you say or do now is probably too little, much too late.
Unless a person is into BDSM, genuinely likes to be hurt, and has given enthusiastic consent, NO contact with your partner should leave a mark or lingering pain. If you had a disease or condition that made you bruise easily, IMO that would make it even more troublesome that you are constantly left with bruises or marks, as they are still signs of subcutaneous damage, and you bf isnt taking care. (It might be a good thing to talk to a doctor about it.) My point there being–it makes no difference if you're more “sensitive” than most–this is not normal or acceptable.
You have repeatedly told him not to hurt you, made it clear what activities are unacceptable, and he still repeatedly (maybe even habitually) has left you with marks and bruises. It is not playful or loving, it is abuse and assault. It sounds to me almost like he is intentionally visibly marking you as his “property” and mixing pain with sexual activity as a further act of physical and sexual domination. Please find a partner who respects your boundaries and seeks to preserve your bodily autonomy and health.