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Date: October 29, 2022
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Just start the eviction process and evict her
The part about “people like you” would lead me to think there’s certainly a strong ingroup/outgroup dynamic which can make a guilt trip from him more intense. Even still, might be prudent to let her fill you in on that. Hope she gets over it quick and deletes this dude from her life.
As someone that is open to their partner having other sex partners. People view sex and relationships in very different ways and there is no right opinion in my view. However, there are two problems here with your relationship: 1. The lack of sex in the first place. 2. This is unrelated but for me a bigger issue. She doesn't work and all she does is wash the kids clothes whilst you do everything else on top of study and full time work.
I hate to say it but it really does sound like she is using you for her own benefit. This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. I feel for you having 2 kids, I have 2 young ones of my own and the very thought of not seeing them every day is so painful.
All the best OP with whatever you decide.
IMO it's manipulative that she is leveraging her 'change' on the outcome you propose to her first.
Think about it, she's not changing now. The goalpost (i.e. proposal) has been moved, a couple times now? Which isn't a bad thing imo given what's happening.
She knows she has to make progress for you to feel more comfortable about proposing. She's not done this. In fact she threw it all out the window and is refusing to budge.
The things she says to you, fuck you, I hate you, the manipulation that she claims you string her along, is in line with what emotional abuse looks like.
In her mind, you have to prove yourself to her by proposing, but she has zero interest in proving herself to you by doing any of the work.
Here's what will happen if you propose. You'll be sunk in further, she still won't change, throw in some spent money towards planning a wedding, another possible whoops pregnancy and you're going to be feeling stuck af which will make it much harder for you to leave.
If she has issues and trauma, that's really difficult and unfortunate however it's her job to work on her issues. It's not right or loving for her to dump on you or treat you like shit.
It's also alarming she seems to control your whereabouts and also doesn't respect your privacy with your phone.
You will continue to give and give, bend over and cave to her insecurities and she will do nothing for you.
Does she not understand what night shift is? Like she has to understand that you require sleep and if you don’t sleep from 9-12pm, you won’t sleep at all. Honestly you need more sleep and if that means less time awake while she is, then so be it, it’s not forever.
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Wait a minute…
Definitely don't buy a house with her. I would also talk to her about everything and lay it all out to her. Tell her that individual counseling for her or marriage counseling for both or divorce. Mean what you say and tell her that if she chooses to do nothing, then you will leave her and file for divorce.
as OP said…. He’s already had several conversations with her about getting a job. It didn’t seem beneficial to make a recommendation that OP has already attempted on multiple occasions to no avail
Yeah I feel the same way. I don't know why he wouldn't want to just try a relationship. If it was really bad or something we could always just break up… What should I do now? Should I ask him if he is not that interested in me?
Just be careful. You are rationalizing things the same way I did and I realize now I was making excuses for behavior that ultimately unraveled the relationship.
Because he tried multiple times to communicate it with her already amd she is changing the discussion. Also the partie that has the problem by not having sex should communicate the problem. It is not the other persons responsibility to guess and to guess right! She is not communicating at all, she changes the subject and she is also playing with him. When she is horny she wants staff but then she plays with him a little and it doesn't go further than that!!!. Communication is the key and it should not be always from the side of the man but from the women also.
Thank you for your advice
If he’s so concerned about debt, sell his motorcycle and that’s one less thing you pay for.
I see what you’re talking about just because we had similar happen in our friend group with a couple and a single friend.
He threw you under the bus making you sound insecure. Which is what happened to our friend group. He would say “yeah my gf doesn’t want me seeing her” and things like that. Wasn’t until they broke up years later it was because the bf and the single chick did the gf wrong.