If they don’t possess this skill, where does the idea that they should’ve still managed to teach it to you come from.. I think you’re angry at the fact that you’re alone that you want something to blame.
He could’ve decided to go, told you he was going before the day of, and then made sure to check in. Instead, he blocked you so you couldn’t bother him.
He’s straight up trash. You should really re-evaluate what you tolerate
It'll never work out- if you stay then you'll end up resentful of her for being stuck there, and if you guys move then she'll be resentful of you for taking her away from her family.
Tbh, I think a big percentage of men would take the option to sleep with other people if their partner said they were comfortable with it. But they don't ask for it because they don't feel comfortable with their gf sleeping with others.
Being with a partner doesn't mean you stop finding others attractive. You're different from your man in that you wouldn't take the option of sleeping with others, but that doesn't mean you love him more than he loves you. It just means that you need an emotional connection to sleep with people and he does not.
The important thing is that he is choosing to be monogamous because being with you makes him much happier than being single and sleeping with multiple women. If he could have his cake and eat it that would be even better for him, however, that's not an option. But he doesn't need that extra bonus to be happy.
I think you are emotionally vulnerable right now. And it’s made you cling to him more than you may have normally done. You seem like you are a little needy right now. (No judgment, I’ve been there) He also seems emotionally unavailable and also plays games like not texting you/silent treatment. If I were you I would step back and take a break from him. Write out the pros and cons of this relationship. And be honest. I think you will see that he will never be what you want him to be. And honestly he sounds like an insensitive guy to complain about you being sad. You have every right to feel sad. Your dad died. I think maybe some grief counseling might help you. If your dad was in hospice they usually offer free grief counseling. Also after four months, even knowing that you want him to commit to a relationship, he hasn’t done that. He could be afraid of commitment. You deserve to have someone love you the way you need. And maybe he’s not the one.
But it also seems like I could have another life with more excitement and rush. With less worries and more carefree.
Well, you kinda already stated your thoughts to your girlfriend.
You're a liar with a drinking problem who turns into an asshole once drunk enough.
You are aldo already having FOMO thoughts.
It's not a matter of what “another life” you might have, it's a matter of what she deserves.
And, as of now, she clearly deserves someone better.
Better deal with your shit now than present her with the same performance a few years later but sober.
Did you know you had a child?
If they don’t possess this skill, where does the idea that they should’ve still managed to teach it to you come from.. I think you’re angry at the fact that you’re alone that you want something to blame.
That dude doesn’t respect you at all
He could’ve decided to go, told you he was going before the day of, and then made sure to check in. Instead, he blocked you so you couldn’t bother him.
He’s straight up trash. You should really re-evaluate what you tolerate
I just really care about him and don't want to hurt him
Well ok, do everything but the divorce then
It'll never work out- if you stay then you'll end up resentful of her for being stuck there, and if you guys move then she'll be resentful of you for taking her away from her family.
Early, and make sure they know you're serious and that this isn't some fad or flighty issue you're likely to change on.
Tbh, I think a big percentage of men would take the option to sleep with other people if their partner said they were comfortable with it. But they don't ask for it because they don't feel comfortable with their gf sleeping with others.
Being with a partner doesn't mean you stop finding others attractive. You're different from your man in that you wouldn't take the option of sleeping with others, but that doesn't mean you love him more than he loves you. It just means that you need an emotional connection to sleep with people and he does not.
The important thing is that he is choosing to be monogamous because being with you makes him much happier than being single and sleeping with multiple women. If he could have his cake and eat it that would be even better for him, however, that's not an option. But he doesn't need that extra bonus to be happy.
I think he’s lying
I think you are emotionally vulnerable right now. And it’s made you cling to him more than you may have normally done. You seem like you are a little needy right now. (No judgment, I’ve been there) He also seems emotionally unavailable and also plays games like not texting you/silent treatment. If I were you I would step back and take a break from him. Write out the pros and cons of this relationship. And be honest. I think you will see that he will never be what you want him to be. And honestly he sounds like an insensitive guy to complain about you being sad. You have every right to feel sad. Your dad died. I think maybe some grief counseling might help you. If your dad was in hospice they usually offer free grief counseling. Also after four months, even knowing that you want him to commit to a relationship, he hasn’t done that. He could be afraid of commitment. You deserve to have someone love you the way you need. And maybe he’s not the one.