0 views
????????? @??????????????, 21 y.o.
Location:
Room subject:
To Start live! video press there
On-line Live Sex Chat rooms ????????? @??????????????
Date: October 17, 2022
![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
PussyCharms
Promo Code
200_FREE_TOKEN_SPRING_SURPRISE
Honestly, I've had the same thing happen when I was about your age (am 30 now). For some reason I developped a crush on a guy at my university, despite me having comes to term with my sexuality a few years ago.
It felt weird, I knew I was attracted to him and Ibjust didn't know why tf, haha.
But thing is: be always open with yourself. It's awesome that you can admit you have a crush on a guy, despite identifying as lesbian. Denying it and keeping it to yourself would do more harm than good.
What happened with me: there was a summer dance at our university so I asked him out. He declined, I felt a bit embarrassed, but eventually got over it and the crush just fizzled out. A few of my friends knew and they were equally confused, but none of the judged me.
Maybe you are bi, maybe it's just an outlier. Just go with the flow and you will see whether it's just this one dude or you come to the realization you are bi and still like men in whatever small capacity.
I just took it and was like “sexuality is fluid” and it sorted itself out, haha.
One thing r/AlAnon taught me is if you have to ask, you already know the answer. He’s putting his hands on you, it’s not safe to be with him anymore.
I’ve seen a couple of scenarios like this. Not healthy and definitely not good for the one being harassed (used). Your a nice diversion when he’s between dates or bored and it sounds like he low-level still thinks of you as his property.
I know your probably sick to death of arguing and resentment, but I think if you buckle down for one last fight, you’re life will improve dramatically.
The clearest boundary you can draw is to deny entry to your home (your refuge, your safe space). I had to do that with my ex after our divorce. He thought it was a joke at first and when I pressed it we had a pretty good fight, but it was so worth it. Now I only have to deal with him when I say. I’m not at his mercy when he decides he wants to argue, mentally abuse, rage, or grope. If I don’t like what he says on the phone, I hang up. 17 years I let myself be subjected to his crap. I get anxiety at the thought of him settling one foot in my house.
Plus, your lives are intermingling too much for a couple who plans to stay divorced. You deserve to have the peace and quiet to learn who you are now. He needs to have the door shut naked and locked before he’s going to let you go and find someone new to bug.
u/Waka_ThrowRA, it looks like you're trying to post a throwaway submission. Your account is too young and/or your comment karma is too low.
The right way to do it is to create a brand new Reddit account that begins with ThrowRA.
Please create a new account that starts with ThrowRA in the username and try again. Please note that we will not make exceptions to this rule.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
This has to be a joke, right?
He may very well love you, but he's gay and you can't realistically stay married to him.
You're beyond justified here. While it's good to try to understand why trans people may hide that about themselves, it's in no way forgivable to pressure you into sex and only come out in the most vulnerable/tense moment in the hopes that you cave in.
What he did was really selfish and quite hurtful, you've given him just about every decent measure a person could offer. He is really missing out by not having respected you and giving you that information sooner, and for that I think you should not stay together. Hopefully he learns his lesson and values that respect more in the future
Obviously, this sudden change on your fiancé's part has given you quite a shock. You thought you had a life with him and now he says you don't have that at all. You have a right to grieve this and the surreal feeling is normal.
However, it is for the best. Either you have to agree to have a baby you don't really want or he grows to resent you for not making him a father. None of this will work. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.
I can’t see any way this marriage would ever improve given his past behavior of lying & cheating – and now this . When people show you who they are , believe them . You’re still young , cut your losses .
What are you talking about? He had the choice to not have unprotected sex with her. He did that so now they're having a kid. And his life isn't over. He can go do whatever he pleases while she carries, births, and takes care of this child alone.
You'll always make up some excuse not to leave. It's actually worse for the kids if you stay because all you're doing is teaching them his behavior is acceptable and normal. It's selfish really. You are clearly very naive as much as you like to think you aren't.
Yah, the would be rape
Fuck and move on- if she's down
yea i’m nosy /s
That’s no friend. Dump her.
Your post history is upsetting. You’re not child free if you’re playing stepmom.
Thats ironic, at least from an american context, seeing as *most* (2/3rds)of us are overweight.
You live, you learn and you'll move on. Also… Why would you want to be with a person that doesn't trust you?
Yeahh .. agree.. sometimes realtionship vbecime toxic no matter how much u and them like u .. time to move on.. tx for advice as needed one to know my guts r right ..much appreciated
She doesn’t respect you enough to stop it. That says a lot.
Exactly
Do not go to counseling with an abuser!!
This is dangerous for multiple reasons. OP needs to quietly make a plan to exit the relationship and go to individual therapy to unpack what has happened to him. In a normal relationship we could talk about what they both did and discuss ways to improve. He is in a physically abusive relationship and his course of action needs to be removing himself to safety.
Again, do NOT go to counseling with an abuser. There is plenty of research to back up why this is a bad idea.
how the hell do you concider staying with him?
If you want to know my honest opinion, the moment you tried grabbing the phone forcefully, it's showing you have deep issues yourself. In what relationship do you have to flight to steal your partner's phone? You are both indecent but maybe split you might be better
You let an idiot ruin your day and are still letting him ruin your marriage by holding on to this.
Do you have a past?
Think of it this way, who your wife slept with before you is none of your business. She chose to marry you when you asked. All the others were not good enough for her to settle down with. The same goes for your wife. Whoever you slept with before her is none of her business. You chose her to spend your life with.
Anyway, “banging” someone in high school has nothing to do with today. Everyone grows up and becomes different people once they get away from the hell that is high school.
She chose you! So, let this tacky ass joke go.
Yes, this is deliberate with this kind of abuse.
You won't be responsible if a another person makes a decision to hurt themself. Pretty sure he won't and just says he will, just to keep manipulating you.
Are y'all 5
There’s a huge difference between privacy and secrets……HUGE.
It could be embarrassment that she’s redirecting as anger. She may not have realized she was flirting, or she may not have realized other people could tell she was flirting. Either way, she probably feels vulnerable. Best to give her space. That fact that you apologized is good, but she’ll have to decide whether or not to mend the relationship between y’all.
It isn't normal for everyone, but it is for some. That's even more so if there are children involved. When you consider someone part of your family, it's not normal to simply stop in the blink of an eye.
It doesn’t matter. I’m having a baby with my other partner and that’s the only ting thing matters
Yep. I think he dodged a bullet honestly.