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No doubt she’ll graduate suma cum laude now.
What designer bag is only $600? Even the cheapest LVs start at $1,500 now . . .
Would love to hear what your definition of “controlling” is – please explain how it does not include telling someone what they are or are not allowed to do within the parameters of a relationship. Is prohibiting any sort of behavior acceptable as long as it’s expressed as a “boundary”? That’s ridiculous
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OP fell in love with another dude she isn't even attracted to. Imagine if the guy was good looking. Someone will be. Please let your boyfriend find someone who sucks less.
You sound frantic. This is a lot. You need to think before you act rashly.
I’m assuming she’s not lying about her pregnancy. If she is, run.
There’s some chance the child is yours. Birth control can fail. But it sounds like there’s at least one other candidate. Her refusal to allow a paternity test is concerning, but if it would put the pregnancy at risk, may be reasonable.
At this point, you feel faced with a forced choice. You can either step up and be a father (and presumably a tied down family man) or you can run and potentially abandon your child.
Those aren’t your only options. If this child is yours, and you’re not ready to be a father, anything you and your GF agree on could be the way you run your family.
If you’re ready to be a father, but don’t want to stay with your GF, that option is totally on the table, too. Whether or not the child is biologically yours.
It’s important to think about what you want. Clearly, you GF intends to have this baby, and based only on her age, and the assumption she wants to have this child – that seems like a really reasonable choice. Your options are to leave her (and the baby, who might be your baby) or stay in either of their lives in whatever way you and she can agree on.
I think the idea that she’s trying to “trap” you is confusing, because it’s a terrible trap. You can just leave. She sounds like she’s higher earning than you are, so a slice of your income, which is all she could claim with this child against your wishes, doesn’t really seem like it’s worth that much.
Then just block him. You're far too old be acting like this.
Tell her to go away lmao
You’re so right. Thank you!
They still don't have large changing rooms for just women. How many hockey rinks have you gone to and used their locker rooms?
No one is saying they want control over women's bodies.
The point here is that if women have a right to abort against the fathers wishes, then equality would be men gaming the right to opt out and get a financial abortion of he doesn’t want the child but she does.
Self respect has left the chat lol
Maybe he’s just afraid to admit his feelings, because he thinks you’ll call things off?
Check out r/justnomil. There's thousands of stories just like yours. However the root of the solution is requiring your partner setting boundaries with his mother. It's also going to require patience on your part. She raised him to accept this behavior and that keeping her happy is priority number one. So it will take time and lots of effort to undo that conditioning
I understand the desire to defend someone you spent much time with and love. One thing to consider is if he were committed to you living healthily and taking care of yourself, he would have supported you in this task. If he was anxious over your health, he would use that as motivation to support you ie; help you with meal prep, invite you to nightly walks or gym with him, prep morning shakes or water bottles together etc. Him breaking up with you and then coming back once you've reached a standard he finds appropriate is disrespectful, shameful, and demonstrates he's not worthy of being your partner. You deserve someone who will fight for you and not show up when all the hot work is done.
I’m confused. Your OP states she had just had an abortion. When? How long ago? And that she was on birth control. Which, of course, can and does fail sometimes.
I think you’re feeling slighted by Jenny. That you’re upset she decided to confide in your future MIL before she confided in you. And that instead of posting photos referencing your bachelorette party cruise, her photos seemed to show she was alone on vacation. Am I correct?
Get an abortion and a divorce. I'm so sorry you met a monster. Run girl, run
I agree with this. It is an actual break up, no matter how it is couched. There is no special “Friends” on a break identifier for relationships that is different than a break up. They are the same.
Weird that you keep trying to paint me as someone trying to “save face” or jump on soap boxes. There was never a right or wrong, I questioned and pointed out what appeared to be a double standard in your comment to which your rebuttal was unnecessary jabs and assumptions about me as a person instead of a dignified response, but I guess I was hoping for better so again have a good one
You pack your bags, leave and file for divorce
It sounds like you’re being too nice, to be honest. He needs to know to take this seriously. I made the mistake of being nice about everything and not really truly putting my foot down and eventually I just had enough and divorced him. If I could do one thing differently, I would have been more adamant from the beginning about sharing the burdens of life. That’s what marriage and partnership is for – not so one person can shoulder most of the burden so the other person can sit and play video games.
If he doesn’t wanna help with the financial cost of you visiting then visit less frequently. 100 on uber a week is a lot of money. I understand it’s a tough situation on both ends. Maybe ask him if he doesn’t wanna help, and he’s physically unable to come to yours then what would he suggest since seeing him less frequently is also an option he dislikes. I doubt he’ll have a good answer.
Man here. Dated a lot of ladies.
I’d say nearly all were beautiful in my eyes. And I told them.
I married the most beautiful in the world, Well to me.
No he shouldn’t have said average words. It’s a stupid mistake on his side but it has now shown you how he is thinking. That’s not a bad thing but now it is down to you to decide what to do next.
Personally, and this is just me, if a gf said I was those words I expect I’d be heading for the door but that’s me.
Put it this way stereotyping beauty is wrong and that’s what insta etc has done. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Your bf was just showing immaturity in my opinion.
He has checked out. I’m not sure there is anything to save.
So you've told both guys about all this, then? Cos if you haven't, this is bullshit, along with all your other lies.
Or? Hear me out…someone who isn’t a judgmental ass that would stay with me in sickness and in health AND support my bodily decisions. Crazy, I know.
I didn’t act like this when I was 15.
Boom!
Oops. It super sounded like you were saying the opposite to me lol
I really value our friendship, but sometimes I think I'd like to try dating you and I've wondered if you've ever thought about it? If not, I'm cool just sticking with being friends, I just wanted to know if I had a chance before filing this as completely platonic.
Because it's apparently all about him.