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Nah. I get that you wanna respect your best friends wishes to lower risk of drama, but you've already been dragged into it.
I absolutely would have said something. Simply saying “Yeah, I didn't get an invite” is not causing drama. It's being honest.
Sometimes hurt feelings are necessary to expose the truth and allow for betrayal to diminish and heal. It's never going to heal if you don't bring up the truth.
A lot of people on the younger side are caught up and blinded in the emotional pull, hoping things will be better before anything happens in action. They might be fine two months from now and when this emotional event wears off he might come to realize how disrespectful and careless she was towards him and their relationship, and exactly how she was going to give that up. Especially when he questions what she will do if she has those feelings again.
These things take time and often you have to marinate on them. He is already learning boundaries and hopefully what he will do if they are crossed again, which is to leave the situation entirely.
Good grief! Seriously you want to marry a tax fraudster? You realise you will end up being suspected of collaboration.
Also, assuming what she has said is true, which it may not be, whatโs to stop her โhusbandโ telling the authorities if she tries to divorce him and marry you? If he blackmailed her into marriage by threatening to tell them heโs not going to let her leave.
How do you know they arenโt both in some sort of scam together and youโre the one being scammed?
Ty and yea it wasnโt supposed to happen we were smoking and he just kinda kissed me
Eh….remember the part where you “broke up”?
What the purpose fore having someone you no longer have a bond with
stir-around in your life?
You are letting her live! rent-free in your head and then complaining about
all the noice your “tenant” is making.
You are doing this to Yourself. Wake-up.
You can't make her do anything.
As others have pointed out, you donโt know someone after 6 months so use this as a lesson learned.
Now that youโre here:
In the middle of the day, sit him down and tell him you find these behaviors unacceptable and if he does it again you will be moving out. Let him know, that if he chases you around and tries to forcibly shove his fingers up your nose you will call the cops. Full stop. You donโt think itโs funny or a game and you find it abusive. Make sure he verbally acknowledges this as a boundary. If he does any of these things again, stay true to your word. Call the cops &/or move out.
I really want to block him but its awkward cause then i have to see him at the gym again. I just dont know if it'll work out.
If you really want to block him, then don't pursue anything. Next time he approaches, just say you're not interested and put your headphones on.
The flirting comments alone would not shock me given how long you two have been together and you're out of the “honeymoon” phase.
Do you still go on regular dates? Do you enjoy spending time together? How is your non-flirtatious communication?
You know him best, was he always the lower libido or is this something new?
Most relationships go through highs and lows. What matters is whether both of you are willing to put in the effort to improve things. If you bring this up and he's dismissive or after agreeing to work on improving your relationship he falls back into old trends and does nothing, then it's a pretty clear sign he's checked out and this relationship has run its course.
Reddit is a cesspool filled with hyprocites and know it alls. I just came here to further my point. If I really cared, I wouldโve asked someone I respect.
Unfortunately because you're not his mom, it's not your place to lecture your adult boyfriend on his crappy job attendance and lazy behavior. I would talk to him about how his actions are affecting your living situation and in turn your relationship. If he doesn't make any changes after you have an adult discussion, it kind of sounds like you need to end things.
Rewrite your first sentence to be about the person in question rather than hate speech thanks.
I just wanna say I can feel how you feel, hope you get over it sooner than later
No idea what to say beyond good luck finding a guy who is up for 4 to 5 times a day!
I understand that they're grieving, but
a) they cannot withhold that letter from you, it's yours. b) they had no right to READ his suicide letter to you.
That's just wrong
Voice your concerns to your doctors and theyโll sort it out and speak with your husband
This is a waste of time. Just move on and be single
No one's reading past “cheating on me”. This is a lost cause relationship.
My new boyfriend lives in a different state, heโs told me he wouldnโt mind but money wise itโs a bad move right now. My ex has offered to go to his grandparents house or his moms house until I leave but I know heโll just hold it over me and whine the entire time he canโt be in the apartment.
Reminds me of my first crush. Smartest, most attractive girl I knew.. she was super nice and chatty to me too. Well, in 4rd grade I figured I would give her what all girls want, some cheep mall bought 'gold' neckless, that'll win her over. We never really spoke again, even though we went though 4th-highschool together. Hurt like hell. I can actually recall this 30 years later.
In your case, the reasoning may be different, but the results are the same. She has made it clear she doesn't have interest in talking with you. It happens, it sucks, and oftentimes you aren't given a reason. There isn't much to be done, as standing in front of her house with a boombox isn't going to achieve your goal – just make you look worse.
Point being, she asked for space indirectly, give her space. Maybe she'll contact you again, maybe she won't. The ball is no longer in your court – you need to go on with your life. Just apologizing or begging her will not yield positive results.
That's great advice. I've been looking for a concert or something for is to go to. I like those ideas though.
He needs counseling. Watching porn hours a day isn't healthy. Getting off once a day is. And using porn to rub one out is fine. But watching it hours a day without doing anything is not healthy.
That's how he made it sound, but to be honest I didn't feel I was educated enough to have an opinion at the time of the conversation so I didn't dig or question much. He could've been referring to half of whatever is left over after contributing what would be made off of the other rented out side. I will def have to get clarification on that one next time we talk about it. I did tell him I would like some time to think on it and educate myself on it all before we approach the topic again, and he encouraged me to do that as well. Definitely plan on seeking out professional help, but wanted some generalized opinions from people who maybe have been in this kind of situation before paying a specialist lol
You dont need advice. You need an route to break up. Most of the definitional pillars of a relationship are broken from what I read.
Hope the best for you OP