Seriously, this. Why wouldn't this already be set in motion? This is what showing up for your son is all about. I wonder if OP is avoiding this option for financial reasons. Sounds like the ex was a SAHM and primary care giver.
Don't have children if you aren't certain you want them. They are a lifelong commitment. I have one child who is an adult now, and I can say raising a child is the hardest thing I ever did. Thankfully my child had no health issues when she was born, I don't know how I would have managed if she had been severely disabled.
Once you have a child, your life is not your own. Even taking a nap becomes a luxury. I have never loved anyone as much as my child, but raising a child is naked. The sacrifices you make for your children are immense. The love you have for your child make it all worth it, but I can't imagine having a child without the desire to be a parent.
Oh for sure. He was just horny but I'm not sure how upset I should be because I do understand it can be alot not seeing someone for months but like he didn't even tell me.
Ok… but why is your wife in lingerie in your bathroom taking photos you've never seen before? Sometimes people take photos of themselves to feel prettier, but in a relationship, they also send them to their husband/SO.
You need to go through your wife's phone, specifically her trash on her phone. The trash stays around for quite some time. And if you can, I would see if your wife's text records are on y'all's carrier.
Jesus Christ you’re 19, about to be a mother of 4 kids with 2 (that we know of according to your comments) different guys. Do you not believe in birth control or using a condom?
As for your issue with your partner, get evidence if you can, but you also might look at cutting this person out either way. You’re gonna have 4 kids under 3, you won’t have time for drama.
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Seriously, this. Why wouldn't this already be set in motion? This is what showing up for your son is all about. I wonder if OP is avoiding this option for financial reasons. Sounds like the ex was a SAHM and primary care giver.
I'll be sitting down with him tonight.
Don't have children if you aren't certain you want them. They are a lifelong commitment. I have one child who is an adult now, and I can say raising a child is the hardest thing I ever did. Thankfully my child had no health issues when she was born, I don't know how I would have managed if she had been severely disabled.
Once you have a child, your life is not your own. Even taking a nap becomes a luxury. I have never loved anyone as much as my child, but raising a child is naked. The sacrifices you make for your children are immense. The love you have for your child make it all worth it, but I can't imagine having a child without the desire to be a parent.
Oh for sure. He was just horny but I'm not sure how upset I should be because I do understand it can be alot not seeing someone for months but like he didn't even tell me.
Ok… but why is your wife in lingerie in your bathroom taking photos you've never seen before? Sometimes people take photos of themselves to feel prettier, but in a relationship, they also send them to their husband/SO.
You need to go through your wife's phone, specifically her trash on her phone. The trash stays around for quite some time. And if you can, I would see if your wife's text records are on y'all's carrier.
Thats what I'll have to do. Because I'm not a therapist I can only love him how he is with giving him tools so he's comfortable with it.
This is a super fake post hitting on touchy subjects: a total Jody with a pro life agenda.
Cmon.
Jesus Christ you’re 19, about to be a mother of 4 kids with 2 (that we know of according to your comments) different guys. Do you not believe in birth control or using a condom?
As for your issue with your partner, get evidence if you can, but you also might look at cutting this person out either way. You’re gonna have 4 kids under 3, you won’t have time for drama.