So he wants other people to tape over the mess he created? And completely ignore that he’s a controlling narcissist, who would probably never apologise?
Just tell your dad you’re staying out of this. This is his mess.
Thing is, when his nudes and videos start popping up on the web, nobody is going to judge him. He’ll be ‘the man’, the ‘Alpha’.
It won’t stop him from getting the job, or losing his partner.
Her on the other hand…… It’s a double standard that still exists everywhere and is totally disgusting.
Worse thing is, women are more likely to be the ones judging, read about any rape/sexual assault trial for proof.
Look at the ‘me too’ movement, The Jonny Depp trial, the hatred for Meghan Markle. Listen to peoples attitudes toward the women involved in these things.
It’s totally unfair, totally unacceptable, yet it is what it is.
I’m a bi woman who came out after marrying a whole man and having a child. At no point did I come out so I could fuck around on my marriage; I did it because I trust my husband to know this part of me.
Unless she told you she wants to date women, you had nothing to worry about. She’s with you, that’s it. I would work on your biphobia though, that will kill your relationship faster than you can blink.
although this is probably legal and morally ok – It is a very high risk for a serious relationship later in life: There are a lot of people that accept sex work as legal but could never accept a sex-worker as a partner.
I ended a relationship as soon I found out a former girlfriend thought sex-work is an acceptable profession for her. She worked as an escort later – which was fine for me. But I could not accept this in my partner.
It would be sad if you'll find the love of your online one day and he drops you like a nude potato as soon as he finds out what you did to earn money.
That being said, there was a girl here on reddit a few years ago that found her (wealthy) Partner while being her sugar baby. If I remember correctly they both were very happy together.
Also how in the world does he think people learn about different bands? Either they randomly hear it OR… now hear me out, someone TELLS them. So, they listen to it.
Can you PLEASE read the part where I said I didn’t want to tell him what to do or even change him to begin with? He literally told ME that he didn’t want to end things and that he’d never do it around me AND he only uses it to sleep – both of which aren’t true now. I think I’m allowed to feel a way about it as I feel lied and trying to figure out what to do.
Went thru similar situation. Wanted my PopPop rather than my father. I was shamed for it by family and friends. I stayed vocal about it and settled on a comprise since image were big in my family. I walked down the aisle with my father. Then at the reception dance the father daughter dance with my PopPop… was pushed into a second dance with my father by former best friend. Was uncomfortable and humiliating since he didn’t want to have the dance with me either. In the end the wedding on a whole was nothing of what I wanted. It was a day filled with what everyone else had wanted. I regret many things, this day being one of them. It’s supposed to be your day, only you know what you will be happy with when looking back. Wishing you the best of luck.
It's probably one of your last chances to get pregnant. It'll be much harder in your 40s and you'd have to foster. Anew relationship at that time. It's your choice but if you want the kid I wouldn't waver in your position and I'd keep it.
She hit you. She's abusive and for that reason alone, you should be done. Take care of yourself and get out of a relationship with an abusive liar.
So he wants other people to tape over the mess he created? And completely ignore that he’s a controlling narcissist, who would probably never apologise?
Just tell your dad you’re staying out of this. This is his mess.
Oh I’m not missing that and I 100% agree.
Thing is, when his nudes and videos start popping up on the web, nobody is going to judge him. He’ll be ‘the man’, the ‘Alpha’.
It won’t stop him from getting the job, or losing his partner.
Her on the other hand…… It’s a double standard that still exists everywhere and is totally disgusting.
Worse thing is, women are more likely to be the ones judging, read about any rape/sexual assault trial for proof.
Look at the ‘me too’ movement, The Jonny Depp trial, the hatred for Meghan Markle. Listen to peoples attitudes toward the women involved in these things.
It’s totally unfair, totally unacceptable, yet it is what it is.
Look after yourself first.
I’m a bi woman who came out after marrying a whole man and having a child. At no point did I come out so I could fuck around on my marriage; I did it because I trust my husband to know this part of me.
Unless she told you she wants to date women, you had nothing to worry about. She’s with you, that’s it. I would work on your biphobia though, that will kill your relationship faster than you can blink.
although this is probably legal and morally ok – It is a very high risk for a serious relationship later in life: There are a lot of people that accept sex work as legal but could never accept a sex-worker as a partner.
I ended a relationship as soon I found out a former girlfriend thought sex-work is an acceptable profession for her. She worked as an escort later – which was fine for me. But I could not accept this in my partner.
It would be sad if you'll find the love of your online one day and he drops you like a nude potato as soon as he finds out what you did to earn money.
That being said, there was a girl here on reddit a few years ago that found her (wealthy) Partner while being her sugar baby. If I remember correctly they both were very happy together.
So, your mileage may vary…
They mean the same thing, one is just more specific
Seriously.
Also how in the world does he think people learn about different bands? Either they randomly hear it OR… now hear me out, someone TELLS them. So, they listen to it.
He’s ridiculous.
Can you PLEASE read the part where I said I didn’t want to tell him what to do or even change him to begin with? He literally told ME that he didn’t want to end things and that he’d never do it around me AND he only uses it to sleep – both of which aren’t true now. I think I’m allowed to feel a way about it as I feel lied and trying to figure out what to do.
Went thru similar situation. Wanted my PopPop rather than my father. I was shamed for it by family and friends. I stayed vocal about it and settled on a comprise since image were big in my family. I walked down the aisle with my father. Then at the reception dance the father daughter dance with my PopPop… was pushed into a second dance with my father by former best friend. Was uncomfortable and humiliating since he didn’t want to have the dance with me either. In the end the wedding on a whole was nothing of what I wanted. It was a day filled with what everyone else had wanted. I regret many things, this day being one of them. It’s supposed to be your day, only you know what you will be happy with when looking back. Wishing you the best of luck.
It's probably one of your last chances to get pregnant. It'll be much harder in your 40s and you'd have to foster. Anew relationship at that time. It's your choice but if you want the kid I wouldn't waver in your position and I'd keep it.