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Alejandra A (PETITE_NICOLETS), 28 y.o.
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Date: October 19, 2022
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Body count doesn’t mean anything. Like congrats on that accomplishment I guess. I personally am not tallying them up to be like ‘man I gotta get to 30.’ If you’ve found someone you love it shouldn’t matter how many people you slept with previously.
Also I would bet that these friends are likely insecure and grossly inflating those numbers
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As kindly as I can say this, I think you need to work on your self-respect and self-worth OP. Why do you want to be friends with someone who cheated on you? This is not someone who has your best interest in mind. Friends don't lie to you, friends don't deceive you, and friends don't intentionally hurt you.
There's unfortunately never going to be a good time to break up — Christmas, her dad has cancer, she's mourning the death of her dad for maybe the next few years, birthdays, next Christmas, etc. I know it seems cruel, but you just have to bite the bullet. Your girlfriend didn't think twice about how you would feel when she cheated on you.
It's also entirely possible that she'll cheat on you again, seeing as she's only visiting you once or twice a week right now. Maybe her excuse this time will be that she's grieving and went to a male friend to console her.
It's easy to excuse her past behavior because her ex was abusive. Maybe he was, maybe he wasn't. But I can bet she's going to tell her next boyfriend that you were abusive as well, to excuse her cheating again.
As it stands, you either could break up with her now, or in January 2024 unless something else comes up that makes it an inconvenient time to break up with her.
…so then this is a perfect thing to start a conversation about…
“Blaming him for having feelings.”
Everybody is entitled to their feelings, but emotionally mature people can recognize with some introspection when their feelings are irrational, ridiculous, and unproductive. They can also process their feelings of disappointment, frustration, and anger without throwing tantrums.
I don't blame him for being irritated, but I do blame him for being so angry over something that's ultimately not that big of a deal.
I would contact his fiancé and ask if she knows he’s doing this; very little chance she heeds the red flag, but it’s a possibility.
Dude… 16 days? You couldn't handle 16 days and on top you had to use porn? I think we all know what this is and what kind of partner you are… ?️
Usually I say talk it out, but maaaaan… I'm sorry for the Mama and I wish her a better partner already.
Do you feel like he’s not prioritizing the your relationship? That stinks and it does hurt when you feel like others are not giving much.
What are you doing when you have free time? Assuming you’re in college/university there are plenty of people you could be socializing with or making friends with.
Really all you can do is work on your own personal growth. Socialize, read/listen to audiobooks, learn new skills, etc. and you will have things to talk about when you do see him.
Also, make sure you’re getting enough sleep, take naps, get some exercise (I like yoga via YouTube), and get out in nature for an hour or so a week.
Good luck and feel free to ask questions
I don't know why you're getting so many shitty comments. But here's the thing, just because this boyfriend isn't constantly smashing things and locking you out on balconies and being physically abusive, does not mean that your current boyfriend is not toxic as hell.
He knows your triggers and boundaries, was trying to instigate a fight while you were doing an assignment and then kicked you out when you stood up for yourself.
This is not a safe relationship, right now. I'd take some more time away from him and think about what kind of relationship you'd want, and the fact that you cannot have it with this man. He kicked you out. Don't go back..