My girlfriend farted in front of me for the first time after dating for like 3 months. Soon as she did it, I got up let out one myself and said “FINALLY, I've been holding that in for like a month”
If he has Xanax just lying around in baggies…. that usually suggests nothing good. There are rare exceptions, but I think combined with the strangeness of everything else… I'm worried for OP. Very worried.
I've been drugged and assaulted myself. There are plenty of different drugs and drug combos that can be used, and not all leave a hangover. I didn't have one. Many are very easy to get.
I also wasn't sore at all after that happened, even though I'd never had sex before. I only knew it happened because I have a strong resistance to medications, so I woke up during it.
Op, listen to your instincts. DO NOT confront this man. You can't know anyone after only a couple months.
A man who doesn't do his share around the house and with the kids isn't a man at all, he's a boy, an immature little child. You thought you were in a relationship with a man, but you're a mother to a baby and man baby.
Are you really happy about that? It sounds like you would do better without this sorry excuse for a “man”.
Yes, all of this is him. I do question if he can treat me so purely if he really loves me, but I also understand what childhood trauma can do. It’s what’s had me so conflicted – the person he is loving vs the person he is when he acts like he hates me
Sounds like emotionally he’s immature. He doesn’t understand difference between spouse/partner love and motherly love.
Or he’s ahole and doesn’t respect you. He’s saying in underhand way you need to do for him what he’s mother does… aka wash, cook, clean, treat him like sun rises and falls on him. He doesn’t want to ask instead you to know what he likes and dislikes. Eh some men are like that I know a few.
What I assume he doesn’t understand in relations my 2nd paragraph. A partner like that develops over time with love and respect. If he wants a woman to do those things for him? First he must be willing to do more even for her. That’s life, man or woman you get nothing for free. What return you get from a relationship is what you put into the pot that is the relationship.
He sounds a bit immature by saying that but I don’t know him so I can’t judge him on one comment.
My girlfriend farted in front of me for the first time after dating for like 3 months. Soon as she did it, I got up let out one myself and said “FINALLY, I've been holding that in for like a month”
There are other drugs he could have used.
If he has Xanax just lying around in baggies…. that usually suggests nothing good. There are rare exceptions, but I think combined with the strangeness of everything else… I'm worried for OP. Very worried.
I've been drugged and assaulted myself. There are plenty of different drugs and drug combos that can be used, and not all leave a hangover. I didn't have one. Many are very easy to get.
I also wasn't sore at all after that happened, even though I'd never had sex before. I only knew it happened because I have a strong resistance to medications, so I woke up during it.
Op, listen to your instincts. DO NOT confront this man. You can't know anyone after only a couple months.
If he was used to them then going would be no problem…
Depends on where you live!.
A man who doesn't do his share around the house and with the kids isn't a man at all, he's a boy, an immature little child. You thought you were in a relationship with a man, but you're a mother to a baby and man baby.
Are you really happy about that? It sounds like you would do better without this sorry excuse for a “man”.
He raped you. Go to the police then block him.
Exactly. He broke it off to fuck someone else, you're accepting it. Can you give him a reason to prevent himself on the next occasion?
Once a cheater, always a cheater. There might one in million who do it once and that's it. But nah, I wouldn't risk it.
Yes, all of this is him. I do question if he can treat me so purely if he really loves me, but I also understand what childhood trauma can do. It’s what’s had me so conflicted – the person he is loving vs the person he is when he acts like he hates me
Your friends can eat it. You're an adult. You choose your friends.
Sounds like emotionally he’s immature. He doesn’t understand difference between spouse/partner love and motherly love.
Or he’s ahole and doesn’t respect you. He’s saying in underhand way you need to do for him what he’s mother does… aka wash, cook, clean, treat him like sun rises and falls on him. He doesn’t want to ask instead you to know what he likes and dislikes. Eh some men are like that I know a few.
What I assume he doesn’t understand in relations my 2nd paragraph. A partner like that develops over time with love and respect. If he wants a woman to do those things for him? First he must be willing to do more even for her. That’s life, man or woman you get nothing for free. What return you get from a relationship is what you put into the pot that is the relationship.
He sounds a bit immature by saying that but I don’t know him so I can’t judge him on one comment.
The fact that he fought to keep them and didn't immediately feel embarrassed and try to delete them WITHOUT you having to bed says everything.
And then he tries to gaslight and manipulate you ontop of it all..
Dudes a psychopath.