Poor people have debt. Poor people often have to pay high interest. Neither of these things mean he’s bad with money nor has bad habits. I was disabled for years before being able to work. I incurred a lot of debt getting back to a place to be able to work again. I pay all my credit cards and loans on time and online comfortably. If you aren’t combining assets, his debt is really not even your concern moving in together. And passing judgment on someone’s character based on their debt is frankly classist af.
He could maybe cheer me up and tell me how his training goes
OP, be honest enough with yourself about your situation to move forward.
Ask yourself this,
Do you want children?
Do you want this man to be the father of your children.
Do you want this man to be in control of your life for the rest of your life?
If you answer “No” to any or all of these you have your answer. End it quickly and permanently. Move forward and upward.
Best wishes for the future, OP.
Agape ?
There's no talking about it atp. He has no shame
It can take time to develop feelings? Why does the time matter. Whether it was 8 days or 8 months, he told you the risks.
Poor people have debt. Poor people often have to pay high interest. Neither of these things mean he’s bad with money nor has bad habits. I was disabled for years before being able to work. I incurred a lot of debt getting back to a place to be able to work again. I pay all my credit cards and loans on time and online comfortably. If you aren’t combining assets, his debt is really not even your concern moving in together. And passing judgment on someone’s character based on their debt is frankly classist af.
Has he seen a doctor recently?
I think that I have integrity.
no not even a little bit
Maybe she meant to put it under her boss's (same name) since he pays her, so she can pay her bills?