Would you be open to going together? Or is she trying to go alone? Maybe, given the things you've said, she wants to go do something fun like you would have done when you first got together.
I can see how you can read this from my comment. But I really hope she heals and has an amazing life. And I dont wish that she would have stayed untreated. I mean I was the reason she even started therapy and as I said she has a wonderfull therapist and I am so happy about that.
yeah, people will put up with anything. It’s getting to the point where I’m waiting for a post to be like “my boyfriend just ran over two people and I’m not sure if it’s a dealbreaker or not. Should I break up with him or should I help him bury the bodies and try to make this work?”
This kind of reeks of missing reasons. A well raised kid doesn't just drop out of college and get into drugs for no reason.
In what ways did he act out before this? How did you treat him when you got remarried? How did you treat him when you started having more kids?
Would you be open to going together? Or is she trying to go alone? Maybe, given the things you've said, she wants to go do something fun like you would have done when you first got together.
I can see how you can read this from my comment. But I really hope she heals and has an amazing life. And I dont wish that she would have stayed untreated. I mean I was the reason she even started therapy and as I said she has a wonderfull therapist and I am so happy about that.
What’s the bet he’s told her he’s single?
Exactly. If this person was insignificant with regards to being a threat to the marriage, he would have been brought up already.
Thank you but what if it comes up later? If she asks about last person I slept with etc?
yeah, people will put up with anything. It’s getting to the point where I’m waiting for a post to be like “my boyfriend just ran over two people and I’m not sure if it’s a dealbreaker or not. Should I break up with him or should I help him bury the bodies and try to make this work?”