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I’ve had a previous boyfriend do this exact same scenario to me as well, and I told my current boyfriend about how it made me feel molested and used. It’s the fact that he turned around and did they exact same thing. Either he doesn’t really listen to me or he doesn’t seem to care. But I do believe it helps him. I just don’t understand why sex is a problem solver for everything. I’ve been talking to a therapist about ti, because I’m not trying to play the victim here
I give you some points for not lying to your husband when he asked if you told your Dad but you got to see things from his perspective. How would you like it if you found out some unsavory things about your Dad and your husband went and told his Dad. I applaud your Dad for being so objective and neutral because that’s rare between father/daughter and mother/son relationships but it still doesn’t make it okay to tell him no matter how non-judgmental he is. Only thing you can do now is apologize, and give him time to trust you again, but it’s probably going to be a while.
Sounds like a play stupid games, win stupid prizes situation. If you didn't talk about what was or wasn't allowed before the break then it was okay for your partner to do this.
You now have to decide whether you're so hurt that you want to break up with them or not, which is valid. But you can't blame your partner.
I'm exhausted just reading that. And at no point did I get a sense of what he brings to the relationship. He doesn't seem loving, he doesn't seem fun, I don't understand why you like this guy or put so much energy into him… you certainly didn't mention the upside.
No ? I sleep with my phone near my pillow all the time and this has never happened, until I changed my passcode. I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt this time and will definitely bring it up in therapy bc I really don’t know what to think
I kind of just forced myself to get over it. We are both stubborn so there was no talking about it for awhile. But very recently we had a huge epiphany together & are now going to couples therapy which ultimately felt easier. We are living together right now & finally getting to know how each other feel. I got lucky with the way things played out truthfully, bcus in my past relationships, me & my ex broke up rather than listen to each other.
Hi OP. There’s a lot of people saying this might be your only chance to have a child, and that might be true, but it might not be too. My sister has pretty bad PCOS and endometriosis, and has a 15 year old, a 12 year old and a 3 year old! They wanted to start her on fertility treatments when she was diagnosed, but she got pregnant naturally a few months in. If you go ahead and terminate, I just think you need to have a real think about whether you actually do want kids. If the answer’s yes, that’s ok! You have plenty of time, and hopefully your husband will have those difficult conversations with you. Your views are just as valid as his. (My husband and I are child free, so I have no dogs in this race!)
Yeah Fwb is probably the best way to put it, but she rarely talks me like she used to. And I really can’t stand the fact that I’m probably not the only one. Which is really why I need to get over her. I’m obsessing to much, and I think the part where I know I could have changed things makes it harder to move on.
that was my first thought, too. I get nose bleeds, one tiny droplet is not how it works – if it comes on fast and you don't get a tissue in time, you're going to get at least one big drop and a ton of spatter, it's a mess and it spatters *everywhere* The spurt from tapping a vein is tiny directional spray.
Either you go and maybe lose a boyfriend or you stay and lose a trup to go to Europe. The chances of getting another boyfriend in your lifetime who is as good or better than this one is super high. The chances of getting another month long trip to Europe? Not so much.
I’ve had a previous boyfriend do this exact same scenario to me as well, and I told my current boyfriend about how it made me feel molested and used. It’s the fact that he turned around and did they exact same thing. Either he doesn’t really listen to me or he doesn’t seem to care. But I do believe it helps him. I just don’t understand why sex is a problem solver for everything. I’ve been talking to a therapist about ti, because I’m not trying to play the victim here
I give you some points for not lying to your husband when he asked if you told your Dad but you got to see things from his perspective. How would you like it if you found out some unsavory things about your Dad and your husband went and told his Dad. I applaud your Dad for being so objective and neutral because that’s rare between father/daughter and mother/son relationships but it still doesn’t make it okay to tell him no matter how non-judgmental he is. Only thing you can do now is apologize, and give him time to trust you again, but it’s probably going to be a while.
Sounds like a play stupid games, win stupid prizes situation. If you didn't talk about what was or wasn't allowed before the break then it was okay for your partner to do this.
You now have to decide whether you're so hurt that you want to break up with them or not, which is valid. But you can't blame your partner.
You think you owe your sister an apology after her incredibly cruel “prank?”
I'm exhausted just reading that. And at no point did I get a sense of what he brings to the relationship. He doesn't seem loving, he doesn't seem fun, I don't understand why you like this guy or put so much energy into him… you certainly didn't mention the upside.
Are you sure this is a person you want to be with?
No ? I sleep with my phone near my pillow all the time and this has never happened, until I changed my passcode. I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt this time and will definitely bring it up in therapy bc I really don’t know what to think
I kind of just forced myself to get over it. We are both stubborn so there was no talking about it for awhile. But very recently we had a huge epiphany together & are now going to couples therapy which ultimately felt easier. We are living together right now & finally getting to know how each other feel. I got lucky with the way things played out truthfully, bcus in my past relationships, me & my ex broke up rather than listen to each other.
also sorry for the late response!!
Hi OP. There’s a lot of people saying this might be your only chance to have a child, and that might be true, but it might not be too. My sister has pretty bad PCOS and endometriosis, and has a 15 year old, a 12 year old and a 3 year old! They wanted to start her on fertility treatments when she was diagnosed, but she got pregnant naturally a few months in. If you go ahead and terminate, I just think you need to have a real think about whether you actually do want kids. If the answer’s yes, that’s ok! You have plenty of time, and hopefully your husband will have those difficult conversations with you. Your views are just as valid as his. (My husband and I are child free, so I have no dogs in this race!)
Yeah Fwb is probably the best way to put it, but she rarely talks me like she used to. And I really can’t stand the fact that I’m probably not the only one. Which is really why I need to get over her. I’m obsessing to much, and I think the part where I know I could have changed things makes it harder to move on.
that was my first thought, too. I get nose bleeds, one tiny droplet is not how it works – if it comes on fast and you don't get a tissue in time, you're going to get at least one big drop and a ton of spatter, it's a mess and it spatters *everywhere* The spurt from tapping a vein is tiny directional spray.
I’d bet he already was cheating or at least trying to and this was just seeking validation for it.
Either you go and maybe lose a boyfriend or you stay and lose a trup to go to Europe. The chances of getting another boyfriend in your lifetime who is as good or better than this one is super high. The chances of getting another month long trip to Europe? Not so much.
Take the chance and go on the trip.
Because I want to be accepted and I have uncanny features that make it impossible. Loving myself won't ever change that
Why are you choosing to date someone who tells you every day that they believe you are garbage?
I would REALLY prefer not do that. There’s a line my brain has no interest in crossing, and those weirdos are it.