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Everyone says divorce her while my question is why did you marry a 17 year old girl?
Didn't marry a 17 year old.
Arranged marriage isn’t forced so you couldn’t say no?
It's complicated, doesn't always work like that. My situation was sort of in between. You can say no, but everything happened so fast. Some arranged marriages are done out of like both parties actually wanting to get married.
Have you at least tried to develop a relationship with her? If you hated this marriage from the start, then it can't work either
Think about a favoirte co-worker or a bestfriend. Usually, it's a fast connection and they match each others vibes. Now think about a classmate or another coworker. You could have a couple conversations, but at the end of the day, you know when something is forced and the chemistry for them to be the ones you talk to all the time is not there.
I've tried, but it's just not there. We're just two completely different people with really different values. When we talk, it's just a dead end, and the only think that she does really wanna talk about (Islam) is the subject that I'm dying to get away from.
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5'6?!
I'm 5'3″ and weigh about 60-65kg at the moment. I was in the 70s before. That's not that bad even for my height. That's just being a bit overweight. I wouldn't even call that fat and that's a good three inches shorter. I was also the same with emotional eating/binging, still struggle with it.
I don't understand either having much of an issue with that especially at 5'6.
Of course it's good to be focused on health and fitness, but OPs views, motivations, and perceptions are questionable. Get therapy. Work on self-esteem and the deeper issues. Figure out if the husband is helping or hurting. This kind of pressure rarely helps in the long term and it's just cruel.
I was honestly thinking she was so overweight her health was at risk and husband was concerned. I mean, he could just be sick of hearing about it, and going along with diets and exercise routines that aren't stuck to, along with the oncoming disappointment that people often deal with when realising they haven't made any progress. To have an issue with it is one thing, but to end a relationship over it is… odd.
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Put in cameras around your home secretly. They are definitely having sex with each other and gaslighting you.
You had me up until:
He also said that he had followed me before I met him and had strong urges to sexually assault me, but lacked the opportunity. After he learned that I carried pepper spray through a mutual friend, he clains he stopped acting on these impulses/plans. I don't know if he had more to share, but after I learned of this, I was devastated.
He basically admitted he's dangerous and the only reason he didn't attack you was opportunity. So he created an opportunity to meet you anyhow, and decided to try dating you instead. What if you had turned him down?
Be safe, break up and if you can, get a restraining order. He told you he wants to rape you. Let your friends and family know he isn't safe to be around and not to share any of your info with him.
Wow, he was trying to imply that he drugged you too, to scare you out of a drug test.
Why are you still in touch with him? Girl, clock delete and leave them alone!
See I went straight to blow job.
updateme!
I didn't mean to be nude on whether the feelings are yours or not. I think both you and your partner has been through some rough times, and having feelings is entirely understandable. I'm not blaming you. I was just questioning where they come from in this scenario.
You did mention some episodes where your brother was being very rude, but after that you talked about how he has stopped being rude directly, and remains silent instead of aggressive in the face of disagreement. For instance. I got the impression that your brother has stopped being directly rude, though he does have some of the doubts or disagreement on the inside. I understand that can feel alienating, but I also think trying to push the issue will tend to make people defensive and put up walls. I also think that people need to be allowed to have their opinions on the inside, as long as they remain respectful towards other people. Even when their opinions are hurtful or goes against our own values. As long as they don't act in ways that hurt people, I think people are entitled to their opinions. And my experience in life is that people will become more open toward each other that way, rather than being pushed into adapting the values of others. Or being forced to display outward behavior that doesn't align with what's on the inside.
Now maybe your brother is more overtly aggressive and passive aggressive in a way that is naked to ignore. But if he's only being a bit weird around you, that might be his way of trying to accept something that goes against what he feels is a core value. He's trying to reconcile something that maybe a lot of people he knows tells him is bad because he cares about family. He is in a way, being strong. Going from being ok with something to full acceptance can be a long path for some. Maybe even you and your partner yourself too a long time before you were comfortable with who you are. Change does not happen overnight.
And I think trying to see the good sides to why your brother is even making this effort, might help bridge the gap. Maybe he's uncomfortable, doesn't understand and want to object. But he's trying. He's keeping his tongue, he's not getting into arguments. He's trying.
Now, ofc, maybe I got the wrong impression of the situation, that your brother is more overtly aggressive than what I got the impression of. But that was all I wanted to say. It was never meant as making you feel bad or blame you for anything. I was just wondering whether being more pushy towards your brother will achieve what you want to. And whether your emotions might be clouding your judgment at the moment. Maybe you're used to being treated badly, so it's difficult to recognize when people are genuinely trying.
Also, I never meant to assume your partner has no feelings. I was questioning whether you had the accurate understanding of the feelings in this situation in particular.
no, he probably just had a quick crush on her. You really think hes got a shot to start chatting with her on the phone, when she clearly saw you guys were together?
it's a mystery for sure. The bigger Mystery is that there are two kinds of people, cheaters and those who would never, but why is it that the cheaters never marry each other?
Also he’s fallen for the Sunk Cost Fallacy. He’s talking about staying with a cheater because he’s “got so much invested “ in the relationship.
OP, if you buy a carton of milk and it goes bad, what do you do with it? Do you keep it because you spent good money on it? Or do you throw won’t and buy a new carton?
Your relationship is that carton of milk. It’s gone rotten. Throw it out and get a new one.