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Date: October 25, 2022
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U can know about red pill and not be a mysogynist
He only gets a say in whether he stays with her afterwards.
When was the last time they had 30minutes of individual time with you every day for a week?
Definitely don't keep that secret.
What a creep!! And what a fucking child! That poor woman just gave birth and he's out here whining that he can't have sex with her for 3 whole weeks.
Just for that I would tell his wife.
And when it all goes pear-shaped, just tell him that he said his wife was ok with it so you were just confirming with her.
Yeah the most logical (and least nefarious) assumption would be that he hopes she’ll change her mind in the future, or at least wants to keep options open in case they reconsider. A lot of people who don’t want kids when they’re young change their stance in their 30s.
Did you lose respect for her when the roles were reversed?
If you both really care for each other I’d say to not let your ego get in the way and just see how things go with a clear line of communication throughout.
If things start to go south over time it will be more apparent and you’ll be able to make an educated decision based on that but at the moment it seems more like you’re pinning a negative idea of your own on the situation rather than something she’s expressed. Give her a chance and some patience. It’s taken you this long to find yourself where you are but you’re better for it and see the relationship in a better light now.
Best of luck and wishing you every happiness!
People make mistakes I guess and she obviously trusts you enough to be up front and share this with you.
I don’t condone her previous behaviour but she is young and hopefully she’s learnt from her past mistake.
If it bothers you please talk to her about your worries, bottling up feelings just leads to resentment. Good luck with everything.
Absolutely. He’s wondering why she is confused. She is probably confused and likely wrestling with her mind over her hormones. She may not be able to make sense of these feelings and OP needs to be sensitive to that. If she would have gotten an abortion if he hadn’t pushed for her not to, she would not be dealing with the hormones confusing her. He’s annoyed that she isn’t aware of what she is feeling but he played a big part in causing that. It’s very ignorant to believe that she would just be an incubator who has no physical or emotional trauma from the whole experience. It’s not a business transaction and you can’t use logic and a verbal agreement to make plans under these circumstances. OP sounds a bit dense so I wouldn’t doubt that he wouldn’t pick up on signs pointing to PPD.
If it's just happened twice I would think it's too much to write something like this.
Just tell her that it feels bad when she forgets you and that you are uncomfortable when she spends time one on one with a man, particularly while drunk. Your message is to long and should be told not written.
However, I do understand what you mean. You seems to want her to prioritize talking a bit to you even if she has fun things to do like you prioritize talking to her while you are away.
There’s a whole world of people out there to meet. Don’t settle for someone who can’t even give you the bare minimum
So- you found out you had a son from a relationship that happened before you were with your wife and she just jumped straight to divorce?
The one thing you need to recognize is that this is not about your son. This is a huge leap to make over someone neither of you knew existed considering that you did not cheat on her with your son’s mother.
So how do you not resent your son? You recognize that your wife is making this choice. And you lawyer up- and you fight for custody of your children with her.
You also need to understand: Moving your kids across the country will effectively end your relationship with them. Whatever traveling she thinks is going to happen is garbage- because it is NOT SUSTAINABLE. Especially once they start school. So if you love your kids- fight to keep them close to you.
I suspect she is cheating, has a job offer, or has wanted out of your marriage. So- snap of the fog. Regardless of the reason- your kids need to know that you fought as hard as you could with what you have to be with them.
Can you give more insight on what happened? Being intoxicated doesn’t mean he couldn’t have abused you… in fact, it’s making him look a lot worse since you were apparently this intoxicated. I’m trusting the police.
She said she doesn’t like having sex and only does it because she feels bad for you. This isn’t a question of reducing your drive, it’s asking whether or not you’re okay with intimacy with your wife eventually approaching zero.
I don’t think there is a way to make this work. Look through all of the forums, and a very common theme is that disappointment in the bedroom affects everywhere else in the relationship. If she wanted to have sex, but only every couple of weeks, that would be a very workable situation. But that’s not what she said, based on this post. She seems to not want any sex.
I’d give it some more time before doing anything drastic. She’s still potentially dealing with postpartum hormonal stuff and how she feels now isn’t necessarily how she’ll feel a year from now. But keep an eye on it.
Definitely let it go as it sounds like she doesn’t live in the area. Probably a good time for his kids to spend with their cousins. Family is important. If it was a friend or someone like that I could see being upset. Get some rest, read a book enjoy your evening.
Lord. Another child being born into an emotionally shitty situation. You do realise that he’s going to be just as shitty of a human being to your child as he is to you, right? You need to have a come to Jesus moment with him and be prepared to follow through if he doesn’t change. Oh, and get a job outside the home because when this uncaring man moves on, you’re going to be screwed with no employment or credit history. You’ll also find it harder to leave him in the future if you’re completely financially dependent on him.