![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for live! sex video chat DilaraGrace
Model from:
Languages: en
Birth Date: 2003-11-10
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorGreen
Subculture: subcultureStudent
Date: October 25, 2022
You have to either accept that that’s her past, or not accept it and move on without her. It’s important to discuss your past with your partner and ask questions about their past very early on. My husband and I began those questions before even being together for 1 month. If you asked her directly and she never mentioned any of this and then it came up as it did now, then that would be an even bigger issue. But, the current issue is you feeling lied to. However, it must not be easy for her to admit to those things due to the way society frowns upon sex work. She obviously loves you and knew you would feel this way and wrongfully wanted to keep this skeleton in the closet.
Do ask yourself this though: Does this change the woman you know and love?
We all make mistakes, and we learn from them and grow.
The issue I see with that framework is that follow through can't be observed until the other party calls the bluff, if it is a bluff, and even the one making the ultimatum might not know if they'd really follow through until that moment.
It's entirely possible that at the last moment, you might realize you're about to lose something good and you've just been being a stubborn ass who took their partner for granted, and you love and want to be with your partner regardless of whether or not they smoke weed on the weekends sometimes, but it's also possible that a controlling douchebag, having had their bluff called, might be too proud to admit that it was a bluff and carry through with the breakup anyway even though it isn't what they wanted.
If even the person making the ultimatum can't know which category they fall into until the last possible second, it seems like the categories themselves lose a lot of value and distinction from one another as a means to classify ultimatums.
Ooops the downvote police are out in full force , they prob will need to see a therapist to cope with my comment
You are dumb and petty
2+ years And he started following you several years before You are… 23… Hmmmmm….
Op did your (hopefully soon to be) ex want to have sex with you when you were still a teenager ??
This can't be real..I call Troll. No one can be this much in denial.
Not gonna happen babe, move on while it’s still relatively new and you’re not fully invested. It won’t stop
Dude, just make your move earlier instead of waiting until bedtime
If you have less disposable income, you should live within your means. That's what I do. Never in my life have I expected someone who makes more money than me to cover my fair share of something I'm benefiting from.
It's not about him though, thats what you aren't understanding. He needs to swallow whatever hurt feelings he has and understand that the information wasn't withheld. It is more common than you realize for victims of SA to never speak about what happened to them. And that doesn't have ANYTHING to do with the people in that person's life. Its called a trauma response. Just like OP said, we tend to bury the shit and pretend like it never happened. By telling even a single person about it, it makes it real. And thats a hard pill to fucking swallow. It makes us have to deal with the trauma. Obviously, burying trauma isn't the way to go about healing from it but the person needs to come to a point where they are ready to move forward and work through it but it has to be on their timeline.
Ive ✨️Transcended✨️