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Birth Date: 2002-06-08
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
Subculture: subcultureStudent
Date: October 27, 2022
If you continue to try and “motivate her” you will do a lot of damage her self esteem and your relationship. Your job is to make her feel loved, beautiful, sexy, and the light of your life EXACTLY as she is. Trust me, she does NOT need you to tell her that her body isn’t what it was…she is ACUTELY aware of her extra weight and flaws and even more so, probably beats herself up over it a lot. If you do anything other than make her feel like a fucking goddess, then you are contributing to her self loathing.
If or when she decides to try and make changes, it Will come from within, not bc you point out her flaws. She will come to you if she wants advice. Otherwise, don’t offer any! When she complains about her body that’s not your cue to “motivate her”…it’s your cue to tell her everything you love about her and how damn sexy she is RIGHT NOW.
A well loved woman has so much power inside her and will usually rise to the occasion. Conversely, a woman always on the defensive will buck against that and dig her heels in (subconsciously usually). Your choice, mate.
He might be using them to masturbate.
Or he could be doing anal stuff on himself.
Or he just gave them to friends.
Also hoping you two are using protection….
OP says they are really close, so trust, shame, knowing OP is not going to blow this up and would be mature about it. I don't think the brother wanted an authority figure, but a confidant.
You can just say no.
You've already said that to try and justify being a dick.
You looked down on her for sleeping with others and here you're doing the same thing. So, by your standards you're also one to be looked down upon.
I guess I'm just not designed like that… It's so hard for me to reach out and make connections with anyone, especially with women. In my whole first semester at college I only made one friend and I've only ever dated 2 girls before this one. I haven't felt this way about anyone before and I was so sure she felt the same way, I'd rather just be friends with her and know it simply didn't work out than just never talk to her again. The reason I really hesitate to agree that she simply didn't feel the same way is how above and beyond she went in telling me how she felt about me without me asking or anything. Like once she told me that she was really hoping we had a tenth date, and she made a lot of half-jokes about our house would look like when we got married and whatnot. On top of telling me how much she enjoyed our dates, holding hands (she made the first move with that too), telling me about her family history which I can only imagine would've been very meaningful to talk about for her. She was actually interested in my hobbies and wanted to talk to me and everything, I just can't comprehend why she would just drop me.
I suppose I won't really know unless she decides to talk to me but in the meantime I don't know what I'm going to do. I don't want anyone else, she is the only one.
why did i scroll to the end to read the title. what the fuck is your problem
listen to me, boy.
you start dating when you were old teenagers and you are now grow-up. you are different that what you were when it all start with a drama. from your words, she didn't had opportunity to have a life by her own. her will on this matter is absolutly legit. i would even say that the chance of divorce is high if you don't both pass by that stage. this subreddit is full of exemple of this.
doesn't she play you ? i don't think so. Since she is discoevring herself, she cannot predict chat she will find. she seems to believe taht she will comeback to you. but it is very possible that what she will find will make another person with other needs. and i bet she will be guilty about you.
your common friends are probably as unaesy as yourself about the situation. as they welcome her, they surely find easier and saner to not give you reports on her activities.
my advices :
don't buy the puppy. it is a bad time. it would be like giving her a chain. you will when she will come back. if it finally doesn't happen you won't grumble about 3000$ waste. do the same as her. discover yourself by trial and error. you are more than what you have done so far. she will evolve, so do the same. keep the contact. not only to keep it warm, but also to show her that you are ready for her come back but respect her enough to not push it. have a clear contract about outside sexuality. it is allow or not. there is conditions or not. if you know the line, you know what will happen if one of you cross it.