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I knew a couple with 5 kids. Dad was dark skinned with black hair. Mom was fair skinned with blonde hair. 4 out of the 5 kids took after their mom and the oldest was the only one who looked like their dad. Not quite the same thing but ijs genetics can be weird
You're just a curious outsider and being petty terrible for not respecting the wishes of something so set upon. Clearly your husband wants to keep it up and you should too. It's not your business.
Something similar happened in my family with my cousin. She was 21 and bumped into, her now husband, who was 30 at the time.
It can work and he is a lovely person. The whole family loves him and he’s a great for her. Obviously, her parents were cautious at first but if over time this man can prove himself to you then yeah it’s fine.
If you’re both feeling like it’s going somewhere, then it might be good to introduce him to your mum asap so she can see what he’s like. Would be worse if you waited and built up more feelings, to then introduce him and your mum doesn’t approve.
End it. It’s bad for the kids and it’s bad for you. Even without the hitting the screaming isn’t a good environment to grow up in, I grew up in a house with yelling, it does stuff to you.
IF you do bring it up in a forward way, it absolutely must start something like:
“Before I say anything, I need you to know my priority is to make sure you feel comfortable in your living space, and anything you say will not jeopardize that”
She's your roommate, and the chance does exist that she may not answer how you're hoping. If you don't make it absolutely clear that a rejection is acceptable, then you may find yourself in an awkward living situation, and SHE might feel guilty. Don't pull any sad boy shit.
I'm not saying you're the type of person that would do that, but there are plenty of guys out there that would.
I tend to respect the consensual choices of adults. You’re assuming a lot about the relationship and the mental ability of this 20 year old.
That’s sexist imo.
You’re right that it’s icky. This feels like cheating. But calling it grooming and assuming she’s too dumb to understand what’s happening because she’s 20 feels like projecting.
The next time she brings it up I would tell her that you never enjoyed doing that and ask her if she noticed. “I did that with you because I liked going around with you, not because I liked the activity. I will not let me relationship bear the brunt of your disapproval when I just stopped putting my energy and time towards things I do not enjoy doing.” It looks like she only sees the negatives because it’s you no longer doing the stuff SHE enjoys, and we can’t judge others based on our preferences for how we spend our free time.
I knew a couple with 5 kids. Dad was dark skinned with black hair. Mom was fair skinned with blonde hair. 4 out of the 5 kids took after their mom and the oldest was the only one who looked like their dad. Not quite the same thing but ijs genetics can be weird
You're just a curious outsider and being petty terrible for not respecting the wishes of something so set upon. Clearly your husband wants to keep it up and you should too. It's not your business.
Something similar happened in my family with my cousin. She was 21 and bumped into, her now husband, who was 30 at the time.
It can work and he is a lovely person. The whole family loves him and he’s a great for her. Obviously, her parents were cautious at first but if over time this man can prove himself to you then yeah it’s fine.
If you’re both feeling like it’s going somewhere, then it might be good to introduce him to your mum asap so she can see what he’s like. Would be worse if you waited and built up more feelings, to then introduce him and your mum doesn’t approve.
Well based on ops post history they’re on Tinder currently so maybe they’ll find another one!
When she dumps your ass (that’s if she is real and that’s a big IF) then that’s a shit load of weight lost with no effort required.
Here's something to think about
Your wife will have a birthday coming up and I'm going to guess you may not like the gift she is expecting
Let me see if I understand this:
Divorced man who want someone to raise his kids for him trolls around a dorm move-in day
Finds one who bites, and feeds her everything she wants to hear, and makes her think “we have so much in common”
This man gets her to marry him way too quickly
Man immediately puts her in charge of the kids and housework
Hhhhmmmm, when is he gonna get you to drop out of school? Quit your job? Make you a domestic servant? Bang maid he wanted; bang maid he got.
End it. It’s bad for the kids and it’s bad for you. Even without the hitting the screaming isn’t a good environment to grow up in, I grew up in a house with yelling, it does stuff to you.
IF you do bring it up in a forward way, it absolutely must start something like:
“Before I say anything, I need you to know my priority is to make sure you feel comfortable in your living space, and anything you say will not jeopardize that”
She's your roommate, and the chance does exist that she may not answer how you're hoping. If you don't make it absolutely clear that a rejection is acceptable, then you may find yourself in an awkward living situation, and SHE might feel guilty. Don't pull any sad boy shit.
I'm not saying you're the type of person that would do that, but there are plenty of guys out there that would.
I tend to respect the consensual choices of adults. You’re assuming a lot about the relationship and the mental ability of this 20 year old.
That’s sexist imo.
You’re right that it’s icky. This feels like cheating. But calling it grooming and assuming she’s too dumb to understand what’s happening because she’s 20 feels like projecting.
The next time she brings it up I would tell her that you never enjoyed doing that and ask her if she noticed. “I did that with you because I liked going around with you, not because I liked the activity. I will not let me relationship bear the brunt of your disapproval when I just stopped putting my energy and time towards things I do not enjoy doing.” It looks like she only sees the negatives because it’s you no longer doing the stuff SHE enjoys, and we can’t judge others based on our preferences for how we spend our free time.