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Date: October 29, 2022
The “Open Relationship” ploy just means that he wants to cheat. It's that simple. He learned about The Open Relationship trick on-line, and it lets him feel better about his cheating because…after all…YOU can cheat, too! So then it's not really cheating! POOF! MAGIC!!
Tell him he can have all the open relationships he wants when he moves out and finds a new apartment. Let's see how many desperate single women will put up with him then. He can't have his cake and eat it, too. And YOU are the cake.
The comment itself isn't terrible. As someone who is almost 40 and has had three 7+ year long relationships including a marriage – life is long. All three of those periods feels like entirely separate lives. People break up, people divorce. So a 24 year old not being ready to make a permanent decision is understandable to me.
But the bigger issue here is that this comment was made so flippantly because it's an easy decision for him. You've taken on all the risk of pregnancy. You've let him refuse condoms and now you're permanently altering your body. He has never had to even consider a vasectomy because he has no reason to.
So my question is if he were willing to wear condoms would you be having this procedure? If you're truly done having kids regardless of what may happen down the road, then do it.
Or are you doing it because it's easier than repeatedly asking him to wear a condom? If so, then please consider whether there are other areas in your relationship where you sacrifice in order to avoid conflict. Especially since you said he's dealing with depression – it can be really very hot to establish healthy dynamics when you're watching your partner struggle. But your needs matter, too.
I have a semi-colon tattoo on my wrist so I get people mentioning it fairly often. I don't personally mind if they acknowledge the symbolism but it crosses the line when they ask how I attempted. I suggest saying something like “hey, I saw your tattoo and I'm glad you're still here.”
How long have you been on this sub? This sub is one story after another about some type of lie. “He won't marry me.” “Now he/she doesn't want kids.” “I went through my partner's phone and found something I don't like.” Etc, etc, etc.
The difference is that I can see it and you can't.
Dude.
She is awful! First of all she is sexist, reinforces toxic masculinity idea that men are dominant, powerful.
Second – she treats you like shit! You know this. I really don't understand why you got engaged to someone who treats you like dog shit.
Third – if this can't be resolved than you are incompatible sexually. That's ok but it's probably time to end this. She is verbally and emotionally abusive.
There is no reason for OP to go through the process of getting that information alone, and it could cause permanent damage to the marriage if he withholds the information for week or months while he makes follow up appointments and gets testing.
The potential rape/assault is besides the point here. If OP wouldn’t be happy with her inviting her ex over to get drunk (without rape/assault) he needs to get out of this.
His actions say he doesn’t want to progress. He should be at least willing to have the conversation. That’s just disrespectful to you.
We haven't been doing this long. I expected an adjustment period for him and I am willing to wait for him to catch up.
The way you explain it she is embarrassed of your lack of success. Now is that true? I don’t know, but your story is only your version. I do think it’s odd that other peoples partners go to events and you don’t get invited.