Ofc it hurts, but they were also hurt by your actions in the past. They have all the reasons why they should be wary of you. All you can do is patiently show with your actions and actions only that you’ve changed. This is not the last Christmas, so be the best version of yourself and hopefully by next Christmas they’ll come around
Good god, your insecurities are exhausting. Why even ask for advice if you’re just going to sit here and repeat how you are “not enough” rather than take any of the given advice to heart?!
Hi. Child of divorce at 13 here. My parents both dated after divorce. Dad did it in the gross rotating door of partners and mom did it with the occasional person, we met maybe 1 man 1 or 2 times before 18. I was never upset that she did that. I don't talk to my dad these days. It's okay to date, as long as your kid is the priority.
Okay, but these obstacles are the things that give you a chance to strenghten your relationship. It's about working together to solve it, everybody fights at times or says things they didnt mean
I wouldn't call it as stupid, but few things to consider: 1) If the relationship turns serious, are you mentally and emotionally prepared to be around 5 kids let alone be a a father figure (potentially). 2) Assuming all 5 kids are from same dad, how comfortable are you in having a 3rd person in your life (assuming he is involved). 3) Are you financially (at some level) prepared to take of the 5 kids. 4) Are you planning to have kids with her? If so, how would the dynamics change with her kids….
I feel like I just want to get it out my system and just be able to do me for a while. If I was older i know for a fact I would love to settle down with her it’s just the fact that Ik I’ve never truly experienced freedom specially with coming of age to leave from under my parents wings I know this is the peak time. How it feels like now is going from one nest to another
I should've worded it better. It was against what he wants to break up with me. He WANTED to stay but NEEDED to leave to prioritize his own feelings now as the distance was hurting him.
Went to church before they cheated huh? If there was no cheating why didn’t you receive an invite to join them? Why did she keep saying I’m coming home and not? She was probably sleeping in his bed. Find a new gf as this one has no respect for your relationship at all. She’s showed her true colors take your blinders off and look at what she showed you.
Ofc it hurts, but they were also hurt by your actions in the past. They have all the reasons why they should be wary of you. All you can do is patiently show with your actions and actions only that you’ve changed. This is not the last Christmas, so be the best version of yourself and hopefully by next Christmas they’ll come around
Good god, your insecurities are exhausting. Why even ask for advice if you’re just going to sit here and repeat how you are “not enough” rather than take any of the given advice to heart?!
Hi. Child of divorce at 13 here. My parents both dated after divorce. Dad did it in the gross rotating door of partners and mom did it with the occasional person, we met maybe 1 man 1 or 2 times before 18. I was never upset that she did that. I don't talk to my dad these days. It's okay to date, as long as your kid is the priority.
Okay, but these obstacles are the things that give you a chance to strenghten your relationship. It's about working together to solve it, everybody fights at times or says things they didnt mean
Sounds sus to me
I wouldn't call it as stupid, but few things to consider: 1) If the relationship turns serious, are you mentally and emotionally prepared to be around 5 kids let alone be a a father figure (potentially). 2) Assuming all 5 kids are from same dad, how comfortable are you in having a 3rd person in your life (assuming he is involved). 3) Are you financially (at some level) prepared to take of the 5 kids. 4) Are you planning to have kids with her? If so, how would the dynamics change with her kids….
Thank you
I feel like I just want to get it out my system and just be able to do me for a while. If I was older i know for a fact I would love to settle down with her it’s just the fact that Ik I’ve never truly experienced freedom specially with coming of age to leave from under my parents wings I know this is the peak time. How it feels like now is going from one nest to another
Talk to a lawyer, file for divorce.
Every time she says she is going to kill herself, call for a mental health check!
I should've worded it better. It was against what he wants to break up with me. He WANTED to stay but NEEDED to leave to prioritize his own feelings now as the distance was hurting him.
Went to church before they cheated huh? If there was no cheating why didn’t you receive an invite to join them? Why did she keep saying I’m coming home and not? She was probably sleeping in his bed. Find a new gf as this one has no respect for your relationship at all. She’s showed her true colors take your blinders off and look at what she showed you.