I can understand your girlfriend’s reluctance to give up the city lifestyle. I lived in cities for over a decade then decided to buy a house in the suburbs, even closer to the downtown than you’re describing in your situation, and I hate it. I hate driving everywhere. I hate not having sidewalks when i walk my dog. I don’t even care that i have a yard. It’s been five years and I’ve finally built up enough equity to sell. There’s not much available to purchase right now where I want to be so I’m likely going to rent for a bit if I end up selling my house quickly. The difference in my lifestyle and day to day happiness is huge
Thank out for your input. I'm going to rely and edit this reply cause im on mobile
Buttt for some clarification on your fist point 100% agree. But here's the deal I feel like I'm pretty reasonable with the things I poke fun at. Imo they are pretty mundane things like how she does stuff I a particular order or whatever
YES
What are you talking about?
I agree.
If its her body and her choice then its also her responsibility.
I can understand your girlfriend’s reluctance to give up the city lifestyle. I lived in cities for over a decade then decided to buy a house in the suburbs, even closer to the downtown than you’re describing in your situation, and I hate it. I hate driving everywhere. I hate not having sidewalks when i walk my dog. I don’t even care that i have a yard. It’s been five years and I’ve finally built up enough equity to sell. There’s not much available to purchase right now where I want to be so I’m likely going to rent for a bit if I end up selling my house quickly. The difference in my lifestyle and day to day happiness is huge
Thank out for your input. I'm going to rely and edit this reply cause im on mobile
Buttt for some clarification on your fist point 100% agree. But here's the deal I feel like I'm pretty reasonable with the things I poke fun at. Imo they are pretty mundane things like how she does stuff I a particular order or whatever
Hand her a piece of paper asking her out.