He asking for you to change yourself for him. He’s asking for you to meet his preferences irregardless of what YOU want or feel comfortable with. He feels embarrassed to be seen with you unless you look perfect in his eyes at all times. It matters more to him what his friend thinks of you than what you feel comfortable with. Just think about that for a second. What a controlling douchebag.
I guarantee you tons of other guys out there will never, ever ask you to shave daily or even ask to shave at all. They will be thrilled to just be with you for who you are. He is not worth your time. If he feels embarrassed by you because you have hair, he is not worth any of your time. He sounds like a complete ass. LEAVE HIM. Now.
Get a simple blood test to appease your husband or die on this hill even though you “didn’t cheat.” It’s messed up your husband found out about this from a third party.
Oh OP, I’m so sorry – I couldn’t imagine staying with someone who doesn’t love animals and certainly not one who would expect me to give up pets I already had. I cannot believe he is just springing this on you now, that is horrible. He’s allowed to have his preferences of course, but it’s a fundamental incompatibility
There's no magic number, you just talk to each other and ask when you're ready to be official and exclusive.
He asking for you to change yourself for him. He’s asking for you to meet his preferences irregardless of what YOU want or feel comfortable with. He feels embarrassed to be seen with you unless you look perfect in his eyes at all times. It matters more to him what his friend thinks of you than what you feel comfortable with. Just think about that for a second. What a controlling douchebag.
I guarantee you tons of other guys out there will never, ever ask you to shave daily or even ask to shave at all. They will be thrilled to just be with you for who you are. He is not worth your time. If he feels embarrassed by you because you have hair, he is not worth any of your time. He sounds like a complete ass. LEAVE HIM. Now.
I make it a point to tell men that if they have to ask if a woman came, then she obviously didn't.
Get a simple blood test to appease your husband or die on this hill even though you “didn’t cheat.” It’s messed up your husband found out about this from a third party.
Oh OP, I’m so sorry – I couldn’t imagine staying with someone who doesn’t love animals and certainly not one who would expect me to give up pets I already had. I cannot believe he is just springing this on you now, that is horrible. He’s allowed to have his preferences of course, but it’s a fundamental incompatibility
Yep.
Elaborate more. Me and her would be sharing the couch or getting a different room
I am always perplexed by married couples not speaking with each other. This is your husband. Talk about sex with him.
Ask him. Maybe try it out. This isn’t something to keep you up at night, unless there’s something else you haven’t shared.