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Thank you for your insights. The thing is, we have a meeting on Tuesday and it feels far away. I wanted to briefly meet today to get it over with but she is “too tired after her trip”… It feels like delayed suffering. I am going crazy thinking about what she will tell me. How could I stay calm and levelheaded now but also during the meeting? I think I will show far more strength and be more attractive to her when I just stay calm and unaffected when she dumps me. Maybe that will make her reconsider.. if I boost her attraction levels to me.
Never ever move in with someone until they’re finished with their schooling, there’s a graveyard filled with dead relationships that women have walked away from once they finish their graduate school and lived for free for years
You’re not married, stop playing house where she gets everything she wants and you’re stressed out from the burden and there’s no guarantee she sticks around
Get your career going, get your money sorted then revisit this in a few years when she’s done and you’ve got yourself on stable ground
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yeah, I think that's all that needs to be said here.
Thank you for your insights. The thing is, we have a meeting on Tuesday and it feels far away. I wanted to briefly meet today to get it over with but she is “too tired after her trip”… It feels like delayed suffering. I am going crazy thinking about what she will tell me. How could I stay calm and levelheaded now but also during the meeting? I think I will show far more strength and be more attractive to her when I just stay calm and unaffected when she dumps me. Maybe that will make her reconsider.. if I boost her attraction levels to me.
I will speak to her about therapy thank you
Never ever move in with someone until they’re finished with their schooling, there’s a graveyard filled with dead relationships that women have walked away from once they finish their graduate school and lived for free for years
You’re not married, stop playing house where she gets everything she wants and you’re stressed out from the burden and there’s no guarantee she sticks around
Get your career going, get your money sorted then revisit this in a few years when she’s done and you’ve got yourself on stable ground
INFO what does she do for work?
My BF assured me that it's not that they don't like me, they are skeptical about the idea of him marrying a non catholic.
My main point was right you should absolutely tell the person before it gets intimate nothing bigoted about that just comman sense