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?Welcome? ?We are Nika Kelly Adeli Alice?, 20 y.o.
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Date: November 1, 2022
You both should read the “Nonviolent Communication” book. It doesn't sound like either of you have effective expressions of your needs, amongst other things.
I really relate to your pain though ?? the best thing you can do right now is focus on your inner happiness, things that give you inner peace. A good meal, time spent with friends, self care, etc. The rest will fall into place and it’ll get better for sure, with or without him ❤️
As someone who has dated more than one person at once for a few weeks, I think it actually helped to keep things in perspective — that these were guys who were practically strangers that I had met live, I was just barely starting to get to know them, and while we were meeting up because we were both interested in romance that didn't mean we were automatically romantically/sexually entangled or in any kind of exclusive relationship until I was ready for that to happen. Coming out of a relationship with someone who moved way too fast romantically/emotionally and make me feel like I'd nearly killed him when I realized it wasn't working out after several dates and broke things off, it helped to have that distance.
But, there wasn't anything physical involved beyond brief goodbye hugs. As soon as I knew something wasn't working (always after no more than a couple dates) I broke things off respectfully. If I was seeing someone for more than a date or two and worried they were making assumptions about exclusivity I was open about how I was handling things. And when I got to the point of even wanting to hold hands with one guy I knew it was time to break things off with the others (and we're still together more than 4.5 years later so I say the method was a success.)
I found the whole thing super stressful, though! And I can't imagine actually being sexually/romantically involved in a deeper way with multiple people at once and actually enjoying that.
The fact you had to jump on camera and smile about it? You need therapy.
I literally said that to OP, so I don't need the lecture on that
What it doesn't do is make him and “abuser”.
You can define absolutely anything you like as abuse, you can set the bar as low as you like. But to label this abuse and to call the husband an abuser (as in, a serial abuser) are two very different things.
I very much hope that you haven't lost your shit at anybody at any point in your life, ever- otherwise you would not only he an abuser but a hypocrite as well
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I think the poster is talking about noise canceling headphones.
Well, you can ask him if he’s bringing them or you can just say “no sex without condoms” if he didn’t. Guarantee you he won’t forget next time.
It really is. Sad.
You're going to be in limbo and over think it.
What you should do is ask him about it.
Tell him what you heard, mention this distance and the changes since.
Just dropping in to say I agree with you. It's a confidentiality issue. Also, it's just as easy that if her spouse had told her, and the owner found out about it he could have dropped both of them from the deal and the company as well. When working with a spouse you have to separate the at home from the at work.
Many people choose to stay with cheating spouses for one reason or another. It’s really up to you if the marriage is worth it in spite of the cheating.
We bicker recently about money, he saves more than me. Plans for the day, he likes to be up early and I move slower. And other day to day things. When we come together we come up with resolutions, but it feels like whenever we work hard to tackle one problem, another one arises and we have to do it all over again. Neither of us have had this issue in previous relationships. But neither of us have dated someone like ourselves before.
Don’t be so naked on yourself hun. It’s perfectly fine if you’re not in a mental place to deal with this right now and need some time before you bite the bullet. You are perfect as you are, and anyone who would tell you otherwise is only doing so for their gain. I hope things clear up for you soon. Stay strong, and remember that you are beautiful.
I'm really sorry this is happening to you. It doesn't seem like you would, but please don't do anything you'll regret. Take some deep breaths, drink some water, and talk to someone you trust (if needed)
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I (19F) and my boyfriend (21M) have been in a ldr for six months. I know the relationship hasn’t gone on for too long yet however I do see a future with him and have started to think about what I would do. The complication in the relationship arises since he lives in europe and I online in america. I really love him and i would do anything to be with him but then here comes my career.
I’m currently in my undergrad and im graduating next year. The original plan was for me to apply to medical school this year but i underestimated just how competitive it is and how nude the MCAT is so my plan was to take a year to study for the mcat then apply for a Masters program then apply to medical school. This process will take about 3 years. The problem is the more i put in effort to be successful in my career, the longer it will take for me to be able to marry my boyfriend on a K-1 visa.
In order to marry someone on a K-1 visa your tax return needs to show you make 23k a year at least and I can’t make that much money while studying and going to university so the way it stands i think i have two options.
After my undergraduate I can work for a year, start the K-1 visa, marry him, support him until he can work then once I can rely on him financially I go back to school. I finish my undergraduate, my mcat, my masters, and medical school (assuming i immediately get accepted to med school after my masters) which will take 7 years of being unable to online with him or marry him but being able to visit him during the summer and breaks.
What would you do if you were me and why?
TLDR: i want to go to medical school asap but if i want to be with my boyfriend in the long term i’ll need to pick between pursuing my boyfriend or career first.
Edit 1: first off i would like to thank everyone that left their comments! It really puts it into perspective for me and has made me realize that I might be too infatuated right now to make sound decisions. It’s just that i am scared that if I am not with him soon enough I will lose him. For the frequently asked questions, my first meeting with him will be this year in the summer for two weeks. I spend most of my time at home studying so we’re usually on a FaceTime and that’s how we spend time together.
I just love this for you two! Sometimes, you just feel the need to speak out loud.
Oh my god he was probably checking out your friends when you were in highschool ???
He's a predator
Most guys don’t enjoy sex this far into an LDR, + if they do, she doesn’t. Read up on sex therapy, just taking to him isn’t gonna wanna make him bone u again
Grief is linear and sometimes the severity of it can hit us like a ton of bricks months or even years after.
Perhaps he judged the situation as not wanting to come across as insensitive to you, by reacting on it, and chose to push his feelings aside.
We may never know.
Break up.
Thank you again! I think I can do it
Well…you were being a bitch. So I guess if the shoe fits?
Are you really 27? Because this is some really childish shit. You cried? You are going to lie in bed today? And you told him to shut the fuck up? Come on.
Wait! You broke up yesterday and she’s already expecting to still have this trip?? The entitlement!! And it’s only been a day!!
I probably wouldn’t respond for a bit, let it cool off and then when you’re less upset, explain to her that you’ll be taking the trip or she can purchase it off of you. She obviously won’t, but that is cold!! One day after the breakup!!