I don't know dude, i had a girl friend asking me (party at my house) if she could take up one of the bathrooms to have sex with her bf. I didn't find it weird, more kinda respectful, letting me know she wouldn't if i didn't want. I told her to use the one upstairs as there was the washing machine at the right height. She could have done it without asking me. I guess she wanted to make sure i wouldn't feel disrespected if it came to light later
It's pretty fucking simple. Which is more important to you? Smoking weed or your family? You smoking makes you incompatible with your partner and they have the right to leave you over it and shouldn't be judged, shamed, or pressured for it. Legality or social acceptance are irrelevant. Your wife doesn't like it and that's the only thing that actually matters. You guys just aren't a good match for each other.
Also, I wouldn't be surprised if you're leaving out a lot of relevant information that makes you look bad. You got high while you wife miscarried. That's super fucked up and you should be disgusted with yourself. What the fuck else do you do that you aren't willing to tell us. Some people can have a healthy relationship and manage themselves with weed. It doesn't seem like you're one of them.
I totally get why that sucks, but what alternative is there? Abandon children to poverty with single mothers? Encourage men to run at the first sight of a positive test by the goverment supporting the child? You stated men should have the option not to be fathers, and they have that option. But they still are responsible for at least some of the cost of that child.
Why do you think you’re bisexual? because I have explored with men on the side and though I am not attracted to men, I did enjoy somethings I did with them And why do you think your wife is? Her body language when I asked her about threesomes and her micro excitement when she hear about women making out with each other
Are you just realizing all this now? a year ago or so Are you gonna be disappointed if she’s not? a bit, but not like the end of the world
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I don't know dude, i had a girl friend asking me (party at my house) if she could take up one of the bathrooms to have sex with her bf. I didn't find it weird, more kinda respectful, letting me know she wouldn't if i didn't want. I told her to use the one upstairs as there was the washing machine at the right height. She could have done it without asking me. I guess she wanted to make sure i wouldn't feel disrespected if it came to light later
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Without assuming your life plans, is this really the sort of person you want to hitch your wagon to, have looking after you/fathering children?
In times of emergency a partner should be able to put aside their own fears a bit.
It's pretty fucking simple. Which is more important to you? Smoking weed or your family? You smoking makes you incompatible with your partner and they have the right to leave you over it and shouldn't be judged, shamed, or pressured for it. Legality or social acceptance are irrelevant. Your wife doesn't like it and that's the only thing that actually matters. You guys just aren't a good match for each other.
Also, I wouldn't be surprised if you're leaving out a lot of relevant information that makes you look bad. You got high while you wife miscarried. That's super fucked up and you should be disgusted with yourself. What the fuck else do you do that you aren't willing to tell us. Some people can have a healthy relationship and manage themselves with weed. It doesn't seem like you're one of them.
I totally get why that sucks, but what alternative is there? Abandon children to poverty with single mothers? Encourage men to run at the first sight of a positive test by the goverment supporting the child? You stated men should have the option not to be fathers, and they have that option. But they still are responsible for at least some of the cost of that child.
Why do you think you’re bisexual? because I have explored with men on the side and though I am not attracted to men, I did enjoy somethings I did with them And why do you think your wife is? Her body language when I asked her about threesomes and her micro excitement when she hear about women making out with each other
Are you just realizing all this now? a year ago or so Are you gonna be disappointed if she’s not? a bit, but not like the end of the world
OP's husband is Lia Neeson in Taken
OP, try try try as naked as your inflated ego will allow you to close your blowhole and listen to this commenter's wise words.
my biggest concern is her safety.
Keep simping for a liar that doesn't respect you if you want
Or you can actually focus on yourself FOR yourself, not as a roundabout way to make her love you.