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Date: November 5, 2022
Honest question, who do you think is doing the pimping? Why do you think someone starts working for a pimp?
Do you think pimps just walk up like ” Hey bitch come make some money”? No one falls for that. Pimps prey on young naive people (like op), starting in with all the “I love you” and buying gifts. Eventually it's “Hey, you love me right? Can you do me a favor…”
And if they don't do the grooming themselves, they find “pre-groomed” victims. People who are already doing porn or stripping, “come on, it's just a LITTLE more than before”. Maybe girls that have a bad/abusive relationship with their father (which op's post history indicates btw)BTW.
Nothing good will come of this. Nothing good ever has. Op, please take care of your self, there are much better ways to make money that d9nt put you in compromised positions.
A relationship is about trust, and you have to build that trust with time. Beginning a relationship does not mean she has to tell you everything about her. It seems she has some issues and sometimes your instincts are right, maybe something is not right. but if you force the issue it can backfire. Sometimes we need time to let sort things out, make time for yourself, and when you're calm speak with her in person about it. You have feelings too and you need to let her know.
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very much agree
If you really want scolding, then yeah, what you did is beyond fucked up. Like, your boyfriend should move on and never forgive you. But you still have a chance to become a better person and think about other people's feelings. You gotta turn this train all the way around though. It's good that you are in therapy. I'm sorry but there is no chance for you and your bf. Leave him before you torture him even more
He can be very loud and over the top at times or for instance.
Why? Is he excited, is it his sense of humor, is he just more emotionally expressive and you’ve been judged for that so you judge him? Figure out the why behind why it’s annoying to you, and you’ll know more of if this is a deal breaker or if your projecting your past traumas on to him.
will spend 5 minutes explaining the plot of a book or movie, despite knowing I’ve seen it.
This is all you. Speak up, people make mistakes and they’re not mind readers “hey, I think you forgot that I’ve seen this, or is there a reason you’re explaining it still to me?”
feel bored in the relationship but I don’t know what I want to be different
Again, this is all you. Only boring people get bored and then blame other people for it. If you feel bored a lot, it’s often due to either poor emotional self awareness (often due to childhood emotional neglect or abuse) that you aren’t aware of what excites you, or you’re struggling with depression (could be due to childhood emotional neglect or abuse or a health issue or both).
I don’t find him ugly, but I don’t feel a high sexual attraction either.
Could be low libido from a health issue or just how you are, could be due to low emotional safety in relationship, past trauma, poor flirting skills, limited playfulness, mental health issues, need way more info to unpack that one.
know that looks fade and feelings change over time, but I guess I don’t know how I should be feeling
This is the real issue, you don’t know how you SHOULD be feeling, this and some of the other problems sound like limited emotional self awareness. So I’ll say this love is safety, comfort, familiarity, empathy, compassion, a long hug that makes you feel safe, coming home is coming home to them. If you don’t have that sense of safety, then you need to work on your emotional connection, which is created via being vulnerable, validation and attention. Google “bids in relationships” and “validation in relationships” and “the importance of vulnerability in relationships” to understand this more. As for the spark and sexual attraction that comes from libido (a physical and mental health thing) and the excitement you feel from a challenge or an uncertainty that turns out well, and you can build that via playfulness, flirting, and doing challenging things together. Honestly, since you’re so uncertain, it might pay for you to google attachment style as often people who struggle to know how they feel usually have some sort of attachment issue.
She's trying to make you jealous and boost her self esteem. Ignore. Walk away. Quit inviting her to things or when at parties find other people to hang around. Sounds like breaking up with her was the best thing you could do for yourself. Do not go back with her
I understand that, and I understand why you think this given the situation. That being said, OP did state she believed nothing happened, and it’s her life, she was there at the time.
Thanks. Yes I know the background of the situation. Also the why I stayed etc. I actually told him about part of it too so he knew since the start that I had some problems with it.. that makes it even more hard that he ignores me now.
He's a nude guy to spoil but I don't feel morally wrong about forcing him to sit back and relax at least.
I'll take your advice- thank you!
So life throws you a curveball and you bounce on your partner?
That's not how marriage works at all. Otherwise it's just a meaningless piece of paper. You stick it out ESPECIALLY when life throws you curveballs.
Now I'm not saying that she didn't have a legitimate reason to leave, maybe the marriage is not as perfect as OP sees through his glasses, but I am convinced that a new kid which is 14 is not the only reason why she is leaving.
She's actually abusing you it's a regular tactic give you some carrot and then the whip comes out. She's changing you which means she doesn't love you for who you are, you are a project to her.
I never said it was a friend, I said a visitor. It was a workman who was coming by to give me an estimate on some remodeling work.
This sounds like a plot to a film
What exactly are you getting out of this friendship?