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Thank you for your response. So you think these comments which is pretty much flirting in my opinion, is just to keep me hooked? Not that she’s maybe changing her mind?
Wtf not your fault… Not your fault alone at least… He fucking played it, like wasn't it his responsibility to be upfront if that huge of an unexpected unimaginable deviation was coming from his part,
Is your diet good/healthy? do you eat enough fat, if not then it might be messing up your hormones. Maybe have a consultation with a nutritionist to rule out possible diet problems.
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That’s a really weird dynamics for a LDR. I did LDR and we FaceTime everyday. Texts each other throughout the day. Amount of time spent on FaceTime varies depending on how busy we are on that day, taking into account time difference too. But we touch base with each other multiple times a day so we are both up to date with each other’s lives. We were LD for 3 years, 14 years into our marriage. We’re living together again now and it’s seamless. But I think if we were both living separate lives for the 3 years we were apart, minimum communication, then it wouldn’t be as easy to go back to living a life together. Obviously this is what worked for us and might not work for others, but what you’re suggesting sounds really sad.
I will look into that book, thank you!!! I’m really into human psychology so I’m constantly looking for the answers behind human behavior and psycho analyzing everything hahaha
There is no need to reach out. You trying that might spark something on her side and she may have old feelings come back if you end up speaking a lot.
And you didn't really do anything wrong. She made her bed and she has to lie in it. And think about it. Ehat would come of if you send a text and ask if she is happy? What if she isn't? Would you do something to change that? Could you do something? I don't see point really. It's been half your life and it's now over so leave it in past.
Move on that’s what you should do. Have you ever heard the saying “if it’s meant to be it will happen”. She told you no already just move on
Move on that’s what you should do. Have you ever heard the saying “if it’s meant to be it will happen”. She told you no already just move on
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Porn has really messed up a lot of young people.
Don’t do it walk away now. For the love of god walk away
Go to the sport kick a sandbag. Then talk to Jill with your test reporting and advice to better the product. Conclude that right now the product miss his aim.
It sounds like your boyfriend is telling you that he's always going to expect you to be around his family, and he's never going to listen to your feelings about that. Forget this one trip: what do you think your future with him will look like?
Or she's just controlling and paranoid. The fact that she won't tell him what's wrong with their relationship points to this.
Dude, she didn’t ask you to give her all of that stuff or do all of those things. In fact, she even told you she doesn’t like it and was possibly too afraid of coming off as mean to flat-out tell you to stop.
So what I’m reading here is, regardless of the mistake she has made (which is a mistake totally separate from your relationship issue here), it sounds like you decided on what the boundary was and tried to manipulate her into rushing this romantic timeline you had in your head, and now you resent her for it not working. Even if she said “I’m interested but I just got out of a relationship, let’s see what happens,” that doesn’t mean you’re her boyfriend. At all. And that doesn’t really open you up to do all this crap for her when she didn’t ask for it, especially when the circumstances now make it seem like they’re just attempts to garner favor.
Regardless of how you feel about it, she told you you were just friends and she behaved as such. YOU are the person who decided there was more and you would treat her like a partner. So while she made a mistake in terms of something bad that will no doubt negatively affect her life in the aftermath, she doesn’t owe you anything. And if you were really that uncomfortable talking to her about intimate things, you should have said so. But I’m figuring you didn’t, because her confiding in you made you feel like she’ll fall for you if you listen.
I recommend looking into codependency issues a little. I’m definitely seeing that here, but I’m also seeing a lot of possession, emotional projection, and immaturity on your part that you really need to work through if you want a healthy relationship with someone.
Expectations and Assumptions always lead to disappointment. Don't “test” your bf…thats not fair to him and you will be disappointed everytime you don't get the result you expect. Be direct and give him several options…remind him it's your bday! Shit my Dad doesn't know my or my brothers bday and I'm in my 40's…my brother is in his 30's. Another thing to consider…as you get older nobody cares it's your bday…not like your parents. Big parties happen at milestone bdays. In my family once you hit 30…you dont get presents anymore.
That's not how this works.
If you're actually wearing clothes that don't button any more, he could genuinely have thought you're in denial about your weight.
If you want him to approach it differently, I'd suggest you guide the approach. There really isn't a good way to say “hey, you're getting fat and I'm not chill with it”, which is what he was saying, so any further attempts on his part are likely to go poorly too.
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You’re 22. You learn and grow. This is your lesson for your next relationship – be sure to absolutely know everything about the person you want to be with within the first month or two so no big surprises show up years later.
So he’s not sorry as he keeps saying he didn’t mean to be so long but he never asked me to pick him up – which is true however he said to me to set off and knew I would be there
Im gonna disagree with this.
Telling someone who has thoroughly proven they are dishonest and selfish they are to act with honor, and expecting they will suddenly do so is unwise. Family or not, this person vowed for life to honor and cherish their partner.
To them, your attempt at forcing accountability is an inconvenience, not a moment of growth.
Not only will she probably delete all possible evidence, but she will likely cover her trail, warn her Affair Partners, and then minimize her misdeeds. She could have had 20 affairs between now and then, and she could lie and say it was only what OP saw.
Google trickle truthing. Read up on /r/survivinginfidelity . You NEVER give the cheater a heads up because they almost invariably use it to protect themselves because people who cheat are inherently selfish at best or malicious users at worst.
They aren't going to change in the time frame you give them.
Additionally, I have heard of more than 5 (yes five) cases this year alone that someone did this, and the cheater Bolted, lied, or contacted lawyers/initiated divorce. You can find 2 of them in this sub.
The only possible way to ensure the full truth to comes out is for the betrayed partner to investigate on their own.
Not only that, you deprive them of the opportunity to process the situation at their own speed, decide if they are staying or not based on the full scope of their findings, and set them up to be blindsided twice- by the affair itself, and then by the cheaters following actions.
Cameras are a really good idea. Thank you ❤️
First off, that sounds horrible. I am so sorry you had to experience all of that.
The fact that him and his family are victim blaming you for having a personality is absolutely not okay. The fact that he wants you to tone down interacting with people is inexcusable. He’s trying to isolate you. That in combination with his controlling side makes me worry for your safety. You need to end this relationship as you deserve so much more. Your safety is at risk as isolation and control are the first signs of a abusive relationship. It is safer to leave earlier than later.
My mother died 25 years ago and I still have down days. Something will trigger a memory and i just ache with it. There’s nothing anyone can do to help except to be kind.
Sometimes I just let myself grieve because I believe some grieving never ends. Sometimes I’ll remind myself of something she loved or loved that I did and go do that to celebrate who she was and who she was to me.
Does your bf ever celebrate her memory?
I do think you’re doing well for him.
why do you delete your other posts, invalidating yourself? they jump to troll cuz it is so fucking obvious, unless you are truly a delusional stalker/fan. Either way, you need professional help. There is your advice, go seek that..Feel free to tell your therapist your trolling habits or your obsessive fan behavior.Either way you need professional help….
Three months into your relationship, he cheated on you.
His sexuality doesn't matter here. He made multiple conscious decisions to find and meet with these people, have sex with them, and hide it from you FOR A YEAR! And also sending partial nudes to other people for who knows how long.
Think about all the points where he could've stopped and turned back. After he found out about the couple. After he scheduled the meet up. After he got to the meetup. He deliberately took each step. Every conversation you had that year, he had it in the back of his mind that he cheated on you. He either was not sorry that he did it or could not get the courage to tell you.
Now you know what he's capable of. And you want to stay because why??
Staying faithful to you was a given when you got into a relationship. He was not supposed to cheat in the first place. What makes you think he'll follow your “rules” now?
Your “forgiveness” here means there are no real consequences to his cheating. Because he knows you'll give him chance after chance, because you just loveee him so much. Even though he obviously doesn't know how to love YOU faithfully.
And let's pretend he never cheats again after this (unlikely). How can you trust that he's being faithful, after he hid all of this from you, AND LET YOU MOVE IN WITH HIM, knowing what he did to you?!
Jump ship immediately OP! It'll only get worse if you stay!
The amount of people I see on this thread who let their SO keep track of where they are is scary. You shouldn't have to keep tabs on someone you trust.
Indeed ?
You don’t even know me. No profile pic, 18+ bio, you’re pathetic. We all know you wouldn’t talk any of this smack to me in person. That’s a fact. Keep satisfying yourself over the internet. So sad, goodbye
OP – is a vulnerable human who is stuggling
Reddit – downvote
This man is playing you for a fool. Like he really thinks you’re so dumb to buy this bullshit? The fucking nerve of him! And that red flag of all red flags “we don’t need to talk about it because we are on the same page” meaning “I’m making a decision and that’s the page we are all on” – that’s not a partner.
The issue isn’t that he wakes me up it’s that our morning routines are different and his is unfortunately kind of triggering for me. We on-line in a small apartment and I’m just trying to find out how to deal with it