Some people have a strong smell whatever they do. It is something red-haired often hears. I have heard African people saying Europeans smell like corpses.
Your bf may be really conscious of the problem, and terribly hurt because there is nothing she can do. So be sweet when going on the subject.
Masturbation is common and usually harmless in healthy relationships. It's possible to have problems from doing it too often, the same way it's possible to be addicted to video games or social media or any other unproductive hobby, but as long as it's not interfering with your schedule or your physical ability to have satisfying sex, you don't have a problem.
So are you going to marry this woman. Sounds like you were the safe bet, that got some mercy sex after 10 dates while the other guy that she’s actually sexually attracted to got sex after 10 minutes. I would be embarrased if I was you..
I would suggest that you stop analyzing his motives. You may never get the answers you are seeking. Just move on and dont fall for the next guy who comes on too strong at the beginning.
Or you could attempt to grasp that the way her husband communicated with her about oral sex made her uneasy and genuinely brought up feelings adjacent to SA, instead of invalidating her and chastising her language about her own personal experience lol
Is this even real? You didn’t consent to sleeping with the brother, you were under the impression you were sleeping with person A, and didn’t agree to sleep with person B.
Your husband and his brother raped you. This is called premeditated rape.
Maybe you’re still in shock, or maybe it’s a troll (I truly hope so). But there’s not even a question of ‘has this happened to anyone’ or ‘does it matter 10 years later’. I am baffled you haven’t charged him with rape yet. You’re insane if you think there’s any chance this can somehow ‘work out’
At a glance, it seems like there is something going on, and she dislikes you because you're essentially “in the way”.
Or perhaps he's been complaining to her about you and making you look bad, so she thinks badly of you, and he didn't want you to see him insulting you over the text messages.
Tell them they aren’t your sugar baby and their behavior is embarrassing. How entitled tbh
Some people have a strong smell whatever they do. It is something red-haired often hears. I have heard African people saying Europeans smell like corpses.
Your bf may be really conscious of the problem, and terribly hurt because there is nothing she can do. So be sweet when going on the subject.
Masturbation is common and usually harmless in healthy relationships. It's possible to have problems from doing it too often, the same way it's possible to be addicted to video games or social media or any other unproductive hobby, but as long as it's not interfering with your schedule or your physical ability to have satisfying sex, you don't have a problem.
Update: He didn’t respond.
So are you going to marry this woman. Sounds like you were the safe bet, that got some mercy sex after 10 dates while the other guy that she’s actually sexually attracted to got sex after 10 minutes. I would be embarrased if I was you..
I would suggest that you stop analyzing his motives. You may never get the answers you are seeking. Just move on and dont fall for the next guy who comes on too strong at the beginning.
Or you could attempt to grasp that the way her husband communicated with her about oral sex made her uneasy and genuinely brought up feelings adjacent to SA, instead of invalidating her and chastising her language about her own personal experience lol
Is this even real? You didn’t consent to sleeping with the brother, you were under the impression you were sleeping with person A, and didn’t agree to sleep with person B.
Your husband and his brother raped you. This is called premeditated rape.
Maybe you’re still in shock, or maybe it’s a troll (I truly hope so). But there’s not even a question of ‘has this happened to anyone’ or ‘does it matter 10 years later’. I am baffled you haven’t charged him with rape yet. You’re insane if you think there’s any chance this can somehow ‘work out’
At a glance, it seems like there is something going on, and she dislikes you because you're essentially “in the way”.
Or perhaps he's been complaining to her about you and making you look bad, so she thinks badly of you, and he didn't want you to see him insulting you over the text messages.
Either way, you do have something to worry about.