He wants you to subsidize his home ownership because without you he can’t do it. You get no equity. You get nothing out of this. You will go broke for this man if you move in.
I did. Her answer was – that she cares about me and I just don’t know what it’s like to have someone care about me.
I do know she was worried because I have epilepsy & was often nervous about me having a seizure. I understand that part of her.. however, it didn’t stop there. She wanted me to text her while I was on a date with my BF. If he was staying over or not. If I am able to talk or not. If I was going to read. If I was going to make a long phone call.. etc etc
I was the problem because I didn’t want to do all this and thought it was crazy. I asked her to stop, but she wouldn’t.
The real question here is why are you still with a creep obsessed with another woman to the point of inventing an entire relationship with her AND laying it all out to you in detail.
I agree, he didnt contact them tho. The only contact he had was when she wished him happy bday and he said thanks and thats all
I was told a year ago by another friend. That's the other thing, a lot of my friends now know.
He wants you to subsidize his home ownership because without you he can’t do it. You get no equity. You get nothing out of this. You will go broke for this man if you move in.
I did. Her answer was – that she cares about me and I just don’t know what it’s like to have someone care about me.
I do know she was worried because I have epilepsy & was often nervous about me having a seizure. I understand that part of her.. however, it didn’t stop there. She wanted me to text her while I was on a date with my BF. If he was staying over or not. If I am able to talk or not. If I was going to read. If I was going to make a long phone call.. etc etc
I was the problem because I didn’t want to do all this and thought it was crazy. I asked her to stop, but she wouldn’t.
The real question here is why are you still with a creep obsessed with another woman to the point of inventing an entire relationship with her AND laying it all out to you in detail.
He won't change. EVER.
You are better off divorcing him.
Focus on your Mother. Period. You are going to have a very rough road in front of you. I'm sorry you have to go through this.