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Birth Date: 1994-10-10
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Date: December 27, 2022
We did, it was one of our very first serious chats & it continued from there throughout our relationship. We even floated the idea of adoption a while ago if she didn't want to get pregnant herself. I just thought we were on the same page. It just came out of nowhere. But kids aren't a dealbreaker for me, I'd rather have her
Stay out of it. This will create unnecessary drama.
Just say no. 'no, that won't be possible.'
it seems doubly weird throwing my parents into the mix, especially since she’s already pissed them off (rightly so) a couple of times lately. Oh, and she’s only given me 5 days’ notice
Definitely say no. Your GFs brother and his friends are most likely strangers to your parents?
But you communicate that to your husband. You don't just lie that your family didn't invite him.
You're both in an exhausting space and time.
A lot of what you're saying is that you want him to do things to help you manage your anxiety. That's an unhealthy position to put either of you in. Our anxieties are ours, not our partners'.
Wanting to relax after work before cleaning is just as valid as wanting it done now. I'm a “do it now” guy; I clean as I cook and I mentally “require” a cleaner space than my wife requires. I can emotionally tolerate far less mess than she can. But it's not her job to manage our shared household to soothe my anxieties. My anxieties are mine.
Resentful scorekeeping is common when couples have babies and toddlers, but it needs to be fought as much as possible.
Finally, “make me feel special” is too vague to be actionable. If we need someone else to do something to help us individually (alleviate an anxiety, cover an insecurity, etc…) we have to ask specifically. We can't expect mind-reading.
Everything you're saying is 100% normal and natural and as common as air in the sky. You'll get through it fine, it just requires time and perspective.